- Search outside: caution can not hurt
- Advantages and disadvantages
Advantages and disadvantages
The very way of tying romantic acquaintance on the street is as old as the world. And despite what many refer to it biased, millions of people are quite well acquainted in the streets, and later between the two are tied very serious relationship. On the street casual acquaintances built most of the popular cinematic scenes. Meet on the street is no better and no worse than all the other ways to find your "soul mate", but they have certain advantages and disadvantages.
Outdoor dating - it's always a kind of lottery. Do not be in the first minutes of communication to suggest what is in fact a person was close - in theory it may be, and a millionaire and the poor student, and the mentally ill, and the serial maniac. Judge it necessary on first impression
The first impression in business and in personal relationships
And boast intuitive, alas, few. Psychologists are still recommended to acquaintances on the street treated more positively: at least once, you can determine for yourself, this person is pleasant to you or not, and whether to continue the dialogue further.
Male look
For some reason it is considered that the initiative should be sure to explore the street come from a man, a woman stands some "host country." In most cases, that's how it happens. Meet outside at least once in their lives I have tried almost every other man in Russia - at least, so says the statistics.
There is a separate category of men, the youth slang called pick up artist - they have acquaintances in the street become almost a professional skill, but they do it so brilliantly and stunningly beautiful young lady that rare or more mature lady is able to resist. Pickup Girls create entire communities on the Internet, where the exchange of experience. They do not aim to strike up long-term and serious acquaintance, for them it is a kind of sport: what you need no matter what interest the girl to beg her phone number and her heart after a vague hope. And then just disappear from the horizon.
Another man to bring himself to meet on the street, you need a certain mood. Such men do not resort to such a method of dating too often, but if they decided on it, then they came out good reason: perhaps just really liked the woman that brought his Majesty the case.
How to behave in the street acquaintance
Despite the well-known saying, which states that "educated women on the streets are not acquainted," is not worth very disparage street acquaintances. After all, these are the spontaneous meetings often lead to a happy marriage. It is important at this point just completely trust your instincts: if a man is, to put it mildly, "not very", better to find a pretext and cease to continue dating.
Specialists street acquaintances in one voice say, that a man can be trusted if it has an open and clear view, nice and neat clothes, good perfume, which he enjoyed in moderation, pleasant and confident manner, and in that case it you likable. And when a potential beau is showing clear signs of intoxication, even easy, and inadequate reaction is unlikely to start with him promising conversations about the weather, and so on.
Can initiate street dating is a woman? Etiquette XX century say that it is. By the way, many modern men, this approach is perceived to cheer. The ability to go to the first man speaks of self-confidence, and not about frivolity and bad education. But to offer him her phone number to continue dating still not worth it - the stronger sex like it feel free hunters, make their own decisions. So do not deprive them of that pleasure.
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