Excluding the birthdays of children (children are sacred, so the related celebrations out of competition), the main family holiday is a wedding anniversary. Still - because this is the official birthday of the family, the reference point, the starting line of the marathon (ideally) called "family life." With a little strange love of people to all kinds of round or triangular dates like 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, 25 years and so on falling on the doomed to mark the anniversary of a special status. However, far less attractive in terms of calendar wedding anniversary, say, 12 years, also have considerable importance. Especially for the reason that, for most men, wedding anniversary is a moment of high risk and should be especially careful to choose the course of action these days.

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Historically, most important wedding anniversary give women .  Not that men were frankly do not care about such an important event, but they are in this respect being, with much more readily looking forward to the future than to look back into the past .  For women, everything is somewhat more complicated: a wedding is one of the culminating point in their lives, the girls begin to plan the day of his marriage almost from the same moment as the beginning to speak meaningfully, and many first-graders already painted, where, in what dress and what time of year they would like to say its main "Yes" .  That's why wedding anniversary fanned in women's eyes fabulous halo .  Therefore, for the men in this day the most important thing is not to forget what day .  Accurate statistics on the subject, of course not, but it is possible with a high degree of certainty - if it is not about the anniversary date, at least 5 times, more often than men on the forgotten wedding anniversary .  Because of this, women are permanently bad mood and, accordingly, the port all day (and often - and the next few days to become forgetful men rather complicated) .  So, if a man has not forgotten about the anniversary, in the eyes of a woman he had already fulfilled 90% of the rate of correct and successful behavior in this day .

Since I went to the expense of the interest, it is still 9% of the successful implementation of a dangerous and difficult mission "As a man to do the right wedding anniversary" depends on the gift to his beloved wife .  Present in this case is required not to forget about the date, of course, important, but 90% of success sometimes still not enough for complete happiness .  Present needs it as a sign of attention that women are perceived as a sign of love .  This most certainly a gift should be chosen in such a way that it is clear that it was timed to the anniversary, he was chosen long and hard in this occasion .  "Universal" gifts that are equally suitable for any occasion, for birthdays, for the New Year, and on March 8, and Day of the textile industry, this time will be interpreted as "excuse" .  The exceptions are very expensive gifts like jewelry - in this case, the woman somehow easily tolerate the universal nature of these offerings .

Patience is also a virtue can be male

So the man did almost everything in his power not to deserve reproach wedding anniversary .  But more remains one percent action, the implementation of which makes an idyllic picture of a family celebration as full and harmonious .  We are talking about how men do not spoil all the efforts undertaken by its second half to make this day a truly festive nature .  The fact that women perceive wedding anniversary is not only romantic, sentimental items, but also as a kind of "progress report" which they provide their own initiative to relatives and friends (especially female friends) .  To do this, it is a wedding anniversary women tend to boast a homey feel, rich and delicious table, smart and brisk children, if any, are already available .  But the main "product" that women want to show the person who is their husbands .  "That's what it is with me, I care about him, holyu and cherish, that he sometimes does not deserve that and" - at about the underlying reason are shown on husbands wedding anniversaries .  Both men have in such a situation to understand how to behave so as not to spoil the whole thing .

First of all, men need to collect all the will in a fist and firmly resist the tempter in the person of his friends and acquaintances, who during the day will offer a solemn note date "like a man" and a little earlier than planned spouses. All the crafty argument "let a little bit, and early, and that then people will be much, really do not talk" it is necessary to sweep aside a firm hand - for already voiced reasons for women it is important that on the "Progress Report" for more or less wide festive table looked like a man in the best form. Of course, we can assume that "a little bit early and" limited to one hundred grams of cognac, but practice shows that intimate conversations like, "but in general these women difficult ..." do not contribute to moderation in this matter. So it is better to abstain.

In addition, the man on the anniversary of their wedding will have to be patient and look at their holdings diplomatic talents .  Almost always, a wedding anniversary is associated with official visits Tiffany and best friend of his wife, a large part of which is associated with her husband in one degree or another hostile relations .  However, you must at least in this day to give vent to his negative attitude, and may even put up with a certain deterioration of the mood .  But remember: a little bit better than to spoil your mood than to upset his wife, who then ruin your life .  From this discharge and the following recommendations: to attend the celebrations of the anniversary of the wedding, it is imperative, but it should behave so as not to disturb his wife deserved glory in my and family achievements (even if the man them for their achievements and not think) and not to give inadvertently some family problems that homemakers cleverly hides from prying eyes .

Alexander Babitsky

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