Sometimes women make rash impulsive actions. This includes scenes of jealousy
Management of jealousy
, Constant calls, reading private SMS. Jealousy can hurt both, so you need to make every effort in order to cool his ardor, and be less jealous, no longer poisoning the lives neither himself nor his beloved.
It came to nothing lead
A woman should always keep in mind a tough but very important point: all of its actions will not prevent treason
Treason: Fall or loyalty to yourself?
. She can not control everything, and if all of a sudden she wants her favorite one change, he will do it. Suffice it to recall childhood or adolescence, when parents tend to cheat, pretending to be sick to avoid going to school. All shifts often have the desired effect, and adults are all exactly the same. Excessive jealousy, the more ostentatious, can not prevent, then it becomes meaningless.
More peace of mind
If you want to save a couple, then it is very important in this case is to trust your partner. Or at least pretend, but in any case not harass jealousy, because it spoils the life and one, and second. Confidence - it really is incredibly valuable in a pair of two loving people. When it is present, the relationship deepens, there is a strong bond.
Listen to their fears
Women need to understand that jealousy - is largely not distrust men, and lack of confidence. Perhaps as a child had lived through the loss of, for example, when his father left the family and only later had a bad experience a close relationship with the departure of a loved one. No need to communicate these things, involving the past in the present.
Fighting self-doubt
Psychologists say that the fear - a protective reaction of the nervous system when a person tries to prevent danger advance yourself ready for it. Fear can actually be justified and quite rational, but it must be fought.
Sometimes a woman thinks she may lose her man because of their appearance or non-ideal due to the fact that she thinks it is boring, uninteresting. Then she gets jealous of his women, perhaps, to his friends, who are superior to it by these parameters. But in this case it does not need to be jealous, and we must act.
If the problem is the appearance - need to work on it, adding confidence and gaining even more respect and admiration of his men. You can also arrange a lover surprises to spend leisure time together. It does not interfere with wardrobe change, revise his image, which is also important for themselves and for the second half.
Legitimate absence
Each person happens sometimes after work to relax a little: to sit with friends, for example, and there is nothing to worry about. This is done by both men and women, so they are half in this case do not have to exhaust himself with jealousy, bringing his partner hysterical on the phone and humiliating him with questions. It does not require a man excuses for absence, which he has every right. Each person should have a life, not connected with his loved one - and that's fine.
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