Genera with her husband: monitoring or direct participation?

The birth of a new life - the most important moment for every couple, happy and difficult at the same time. When it comes to birth in the presence of a spouse, many women fear of physical pain, which is inseparable from them, joking that they themselves would not mind not to be there. However, the statistics - are stubborn things: a growing number of women are choosing to give birth with her husband.

Genera with her husband - this is not a fad that suddenly enveloped the hospital in the last few years. In western countries, the practice of joint labor is widely distributed and quite a long time, and only in modern Russian joint childbirth are only gradually beginning to enter the routine of maternity hospitals.

Why do I need a man to labor - and to many men and women still do not understand. If the presence of women can not be canceled Well, why men agree to that? This question haunts parents decided to split duties at the time of birth of their child: mothers give birth, and my father, nervously otstukivaya foot in the hallway after the first cry of the baby begin throwing caps into the air, and phoning friends, bringing them the glad tidings. And childbirth - how can a man really be helpful to his wife? And if not, then maybe it is better to stay at home and wait for the promised call there?

First, we must clearly distinguish between facts and presence in the labor participation. The presence of the man at the birth of his child - rather, it is a lightweight version of the joint delivery. Dad stands on the sidelines and watching the process, holding his wife's hand and whispers soothing words to somehow ease the labor pains his wife. This resort often those couples where the first-born is born, the woman is afraid to be alone in the hospital, and even a certain degree of distrust of the medical staff.

It is quite another - a part of her husband during labor, which is not limited to the presence. To participate in the labor necessary to prepare in advance, and in fact, the spouse shall be nine months to carry the baby with his wife, simultaneously studying the benefits for young parents, attending courses, follow the diet wife and comprehensively studying the process of the birth of a new life until birth. It is in this situation will be a real joint childbirth apogee union spouses who then will be able to boast that they have been through a lot together - even a child's birth.

For couples who have decided to take this step together, there is one insidious horror story that was invented by those who failed to keep the strength of family ties, and sold (and maybe not the best way) with his second half, and now tends to blame for breaking the the day when the couple became parents, and the pope nobly supported his wife in this "point X" .  It is difficult to judge the real danger of joint delivery to save marriage .  As you know, we have enough of them breaks down, and there are former lovers, who tend to blame anything but themselves .  Joint labor - but of course they could act - but how else? The spectacle, frankly, not very aesthetically pleasing to the eyes of men, and after childbirth comes cooling sexual fervor, although earlier it was burning real fire .  Do not be afraid that another .  Firstly, not necessarily the man standing next to the obstetrician and take the child with wife .  Second, the decline in activity Intimacy after delivery - business as usual, dictated by the fatigue of a woman who always devotes little life, and even then, there may be birth defects, when not to marital debt that must understand both the .  Once the dust settles passion postpartum, sex life can become brighter because the couple are well aware that they have become closer to each other .

Genera with her husband - is a conscious step to both, the result is a mutually accepted solution. This is a test point for a relationship, and even psychological nature. If the spouses agree together to go the hard way to the birth of a baby - it speaks about the great unity and mutual support. If either one or two preferred "division of labor" - it is their choice, which is no worse than the first option.

Eugene Zhirkina

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