Women like yesterday and today are waiting on the relationship of marriage, men are afraid of him. In the last century they were forced, they lured the rich dowry, the title of count. Now they are their own masters. What to do with the modern man? Look around and choose according to the principle of least resistance? Or to live by the principle of "here and now" without thinking about where to lead the relationship, and what awaits us around the corner? Another birthday. ... Men and women appear on this occasion the different emotions. However, as for any other reason. Men with large scale celebrating their 25th, 28th, 30th birthday, and at all angles shout about his age. Women are in a quiet family circle, with those who already know their age reminders. Cute smiling friends and colleagues - "Well, well, birthday, well, who does not happen." So any birthday after 20 mark unmarried women. Because the next birthday is a reminder of this status. When you're 20 you think that everything is ahead and see how much the unknown and interesting, but every year, you know that it's time to do something, to grow some rear, to start a family, have children.

You can enjoy the company of men who never marry. They are terribly attractive, smart, beautiful and wealthy. They live to the fullest, with them fun and interesting, they understand your jokes, and do great fun. Why meet with a representative of "a strong half of mankind," who has never married? And it never? Maybe we're just wrong themselves and too much show that we want to get married? Live in the present and not think about the future - this is an excuse invented by men, or is it true?

The second option, those who pretend to be married. They try to live to the fullest, strive for perfection, but the result is pathetic infantile mattresses. You're playing his game, because hope, like all the other girls who were in your place, to reason with him - and he's still married. Believe me, they're just playing a game. Living as if writing a draft, when they write a fair copy is unknown, and will you be in that scenario is also questionable.

There is another option: to marry a homosexual, get the coveted status, sex on the side with the man of your dreams, who never married. No scandals - all at business, all is quiet. You can go in search of a family-type males The types of men and women's attitude to them . There is a chance to meet the man tedious absolutely no interest to us. And you can put up and just buy a vibrator. A man can replace a vibrator, children can be drawn from the test tube, to provide themselves with a woman today in the same condition as men. Only here the vibrator never give flowers, do not invite to the movies, do not congratulate his birthday and, of course, you do not have dinner with him in the trendy restaurant.

There are many solutions - appropriate enough. Will not will begin to think. Maybe we're just too hard to dig? It has a nose of the curve, that is too small, too fat and he does not understand jokes, and he drinks too much, smokes and this without interruption.

When we were 20, we were reckless, and it seems that we are Marilyn Monroe, Madonna, Jennifer Lopez rolled into one. But then the illusion is lost, you realize that life goes on, another birthday, and you're still not married. Moreover, on the horizon, there is no man who could become your husband. Around the man, who never married, the man for whom you never go out, and homosexual. And developing a network of shops «SEX SHOP».

But taken as from some married men and married women. Or marry the principle of "lesser of two evils - the least." Then why do people get married? For the approval of the society? Do not be alone, not to be a leper - the main problem of women? She got married, found a safe haven - and now you can live in peace. It turns out that the woman in any relationship sees the marriage, and all relationships for that tune. Maybe from this and get as many problem children and the insane number of divorces - because we seek a marriage? Why can not we as men live "here and now"?

Of course, life is not a novel. And includes not only the infinite fun, meeting with friends in trendy clubs, passionate looks handsome men. Of course, there comes a time when you need to settle down and acquires a family. But you should not force the issue. Everything must be done in time. First, we we start alarm, then we go to sleep and then get up. And nothing else. Of course, we can and without an alarm clock, and not to go to bed - but only that good comes out of this?

We must live as now live, someone to meet, fall in love, and then marry and think - not married, and that he is for and what type it all out. Surely then the man who never married, suddenly wants to marry him, too, it is necessary to settle down once and infantile matures. And you're sure to meet someone who you really fit. "While playing music, dancing," says Murakami. Only it is imperative to dance very well, so that all you pay attention to.

Lyudmila specifically for the Women's Club

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