What a chance to meet on Street dinosaur? Fifty percent - or meet or not to meet. How You can answer the question: "You're with someone you meet? " In theory, well, either yes or no. In practice, everything is much more complex: the relationship does not guarantee sex, sex has nothing to do with relationships, and meet with someone - this is the third concept, almost did not related to the previous two.

- Hi I I marry - stunned me with a threshold Kohl.

- A opyayaya ... - I I stammered and said words that were clearly more appropriate. Fortunately, I I pronounce them not for the first time:

- So that, Saturday is canceled? Well, congratulations. If you suddenly will be free - you call.

- I'll call you - best.

So I had ... no man would have been loud or incorrect definition of our relationship with Coley. Just six years, we are familiar with, and the last six years of our acquaintance we occasionally sleep together. As soon as one of us gets a serious relationship, communication is naturally interrupted. Without a single regret, tears, or attack with sentimentality both sides.

For the last Six years Kolya was twice married and still living with someone a civil marriage, even some girls were. I also changed boyfriends varying degrees seriousness. One day I happened to meet with his girlfriend. No emotion, no jealousy Management of jealousy . I have a little thing Kolya report did not even - we already had something to do.

We do not have any a joint photo. Not a single joint visit to the exhibition. Any mutual friends. We are familiar with each other's parents. Perhaps I do not know, what his favorite color. And I am absolutely not interested.

That's why I Kohl did not call her boyfriend. If he called me his girlfriend, I would Only annoying felt uncomfortable. It would be as if he bought me a bouquet flowers - utterly false and has already far out of place and wrong time.

In general, you have We understand that we are connected with Nicky just sex. And any relationship.

We easily with each other. Once we were even in love, but something more is not turned, and for a brief bright affair not exchanged came out.

Kolya and I to share everything in the world - but our relationship did not involve.

At the time, I I did not stop to sleep with him, while having a serious relationship, and does not consider it betrayal.

I cherish these relationships? Perhaps never. But they and do not irritate the soul is not burdened, not heavy to carry, throw - laziness. Habit.

Finished conversation with Nicky, I thought, and began to count. Men, of course, not sheep same. Own and girlfriends.

For many years we met regularly, discussing with them our "relationship."

So how much have We had a really - "relations", and that was - "just sex"?

What is he doing a man with whom you sleep, "your man"?

Regularity meetings?

Hmm.

For example, Sasha.

Was she, such as Acne. Vitalik they "met" for six months. "The meet" was reduced to meetings once a month, during which they had stunning sex. Lots of sex and a lot of oaths by Vitalik start to appear more regularly and one day to start living together. There were even a declaration of love Declarations of love - a cherished phrase   and heaps of compliments Compliments . After another stormy night in his Acne dissolved terribly sensitive and important work until the next time. And there were many tears Sashka and experiences.

This - relations?

And she was Pasha. She proudly told us that they are connected with Pasha is just sex. Each once declared "the last" until ... the next time, as you know. "He unreliable ", - said Alexander, -" For a serious relationship does not fit. "

It did not stop her Watch Pasha ride to renovate his new home, to go along with nm hanging out with his friends to spend weekends together. Everything was easy and obvious - After all, they are connected only sex.

Then Pasha He started up the girl and sex stopped.

We sat with Sasha in the café. Her phone rang.

- Prikin- Sasha shrugged - Pasha called. He says that he and Lena parted. I just do not understand why he wanted to tell me this and why wanted Share it with me this.

In two weeks Sasha and Pasha began to turn all over again.

Now Sasha He meets another.

But we all secretly Pasha cheer and hope that eventually they will get married. After all, oddly enough, this man to "just sex" was the one who was always ready to help her solve her problems any - from borrow money to transport furniture. He not only caused her no pain and never behaved like a beast.

We are confident that they actually would be the perfect couple. Maybe. They were her only n for some reason, we have not decided to call his "just sex" - "relations".

After all, it's been not "just sex", huh?

With another hand, that take, again, me and add Sonja.

Sonja is experiencing a strong spiritual crisis. In her life there was a man. It is - in general phenomenon ample, as a reason for the crisis, but it's not just that.

Man calls her every night. He writes to work. Writes SMS. They are seen in a day. Come home - and again calls up. He was with her at a party, cute talked with my mother.

I saw them in companies. They were always there, and communicate with each other. They obviously did not I had to even talk to understand each other.

Is it worth it added that while they have not slept together?

Is not relationship - Sonia got exhausted.

- Well, like this, lie with him, finally - I say.

- No, how - we do not meet, and I just sex with him is not necessary.

Therefore let yet everything remains as it is. That is - the relationship is, sex - not. Friendship, however, too.

Counting male friends, I do their own calculations. Well, in general turned really catastrophic situation: except for a few relationships with baaalshoy hauling stretch at "normal", it turned out that more than half of I He assessed as "just sex" without a relationship, but the couple "something completely big and strong "was actually a relationship, sex is not so ended.

Call a friend friends.

Picture of the personal urban life girls clearly was of a general character with a clinical diagnosis.

And I start ask them the same question.

"What is he doing relationship - the relationship? What is the difference between "just sex" from them? ".

Girlfriends hesitated, snorts, talking about feelings, confused feelings and orgasms ...

And then one He gave me the universal wisdom:

"The relations - it when you do not care how he's doing. And he does not care, how are you. "

"What about sex in this circuit "- I was surprised.

"And sex - something now much less intimate and personal than the question "how are you? "."

I thought it really is.

Another definition like:

"The relations - it when you can tell the man about his mother and last quarrel with her "

In a couple Weeks called Kolya. He said that he was upset wedding. And I said that I just planned it, and will not work on Saturday.

And returned to the his usual city life singles.

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