Psychology of relationships: how to make a man happy

If men and women in fact there is equality, then it's time to stop the men scramble to bring happiness to women, is not it, guys? Relations between the sexes resemble more and more a full-fledged partnership, so why not relax a strong half of mankind? Now let ladies bother getting to know the subtleties of the psychology of the relationship between man and woman.

Women and men one goal - to be happy, and the guys still want and have fun. We bring you the 10 qualities that have to be Miss Perfect to make a man happy. Carefully read this and respond to the male question: what we value in women - pretty face or .... beautiful body?

Charisma and charm

Remember in the series Seinfeld, when Jerry met with dazzling blonde who rescued him in the most desperate situations (for example, when he had to write out a ticket for speeding, etc.)? Well, this can be explained in part by her beauty and overtly sexual, but more power over men, she gave it charm. A woman is able to make you smile, can save you in every situation. No doubt, such a woman would be your most loyal ally.

The first rule says psychology of relationships: that charm attracts men to women who do not call every beauty. This fascination makes us return again and again to the women who caused us a lot of troubles. That charm rescues a woman from punishment if she committed the murder - well, charm, combined with the next item on our list.

Divine Body

Although men in it and are not recognized, but when they walk down the street with his lady, they just show it to others. Show off, so to speak. But what? Her maddening twists and mind-boggling figure.

Doc Love says, "you need to pass a medical examination to prove their physical consistency (for example, when enrolling in the army), and God knows us women arrange their own medical check-up, so why do we have to look for an excuse? ".

Beautiful face

Beautiful face will stand the test of time. Pretty attractive face simply everything - even murder. Who wants to wake up the rest of his life next to a witch? Of course, this is not the main characteristic, but it should be recognized that men are looking for a woman whose appearance pleases the eye and ... everything else.

One of the main rules of psychology relationship reads: Beautiful woman makes a man look love. Therefore, when choosing the best friend a man does not listen to the judgment of the \ friends, and be dating a woman with whom he would like to wake up in the morning. Yes, men like beauty, and to apologize for their tastes, they are not going to. Perhaps some men in rating physical attractiveness is not on the 8th and 9th place, but the beauty fades quickly, especially today, when a beautiful woman - not a rarity, and beauty itself already means nothing.

Honesty and trust

When all games are finished, announced the winner and dispersed audience, we need a friend you can trust. The most successful and lasting relationships based on trust, sincerity and honesty; to build relations on a different foundation - it's like building a house on quicksand. Sadly, often insight comes too late, when there was nothing to fix, so one of the main rules of psychology relationship states: if you want a woman to be honest with you, be honest with her (but never fall into excessive frankness, and do not tell of what she does not ask her to know or what optional).

It was nice to get friendly approval of their actions, but even better for a man to hear from the mouth girlfriend the truth, no matter how unpleasant it may be. Naturally, if at the same time he should not be disgusting feeling, as if he was humiliated and made a complete idiot, indicating the importance of the next point ...

Respect

The last thing a man needs a woman who humiliates him and confusing, which makes it a complete fool. Especially in public. There is no shame in that because of his pride men are sensitive to any criticism. However, constructive criticism of a loved one, expressed in the right way, will become better men make good husbands, fathers, lovers, brothers and ... people.

Important advice for men: the next time your woman makes you a comment, do not plug her mouth. Put yourself in her place. Listen carefully, take note and remember, the main thing is not words but deeds, because in respect of any partnership is expressed not only praise, but also to criticize when you do not gloss over problems and discuss them. Such talk is very effective when diluted with notes easy humor and a joke (but not on us).

Sense of humor

For men, this trait of the female character will always be the most valuable. They work hard, they are reconciled with the many, and they need a woman who will cheer up and make smile when things are not the best way, and laughing - when a man is on the verge of failure.

In addition, boys, I was always curious - do you like when you are a woman laugh, or when you tell them? The ability to laugh a woman flatters the male ego, but it caused laughter - the best medicine for all ills. In the ranking of the most popular men's qualities of sense of humor is always in the first place - women find it very sexy. Arrogant touchy, which is difficult to laugh, to be bothered, "until death do you part." And be assured - the Day of Judgment will come to you more quickly than for her.

The mind and confidence

Perhaps our ancestors and preferred intelligent women - not just well-read highbrow intellectual, but also endowed with the wisdom of home. But tell the truth - that feminists do not like (but then again, who cares?) - Many men do not want a smart woman. It is too difficult to tame and keep under control. After all, men are afraid that their friends can become unmanageable and will put their claim (oh no ...).

Today I would like to think we have matured a little bit and understand the value of such an ally as an intelligent woman. If the woman you are looking for a housewife, mother and maid, you injure yourself, so choose a friend who will be able to learn from you as much as you have it. Just imagine what will be your unbreakable union.

Focused and energetic

If you need a full-fledged partner of the man, he will have to find a woman who would constantly encourage his thinking, exciting emotions and ambitions, and will not stop there. Brilliant ideas are born in the family, as embodied in the field, meeting rooms and offices, so man should find a woman for themselves. As they say, repetition - the mother of learning.

Women with a strong will and are remarkably stubborn, which is not so easy to handle. But diplomatically woman strategist always emerge victorious in the battle of life. Do not you want to get to your team such a player?

Heart of gold

Most women are selfish in the best of times and frankly malicious - in heavy, so the reason why men allow themselves to seduce (perhaps this reason we know?) Woman with predatory intentions clearly remains a mystery to me. Men scribbling long letters in men's magazines, describing his misadventures, but they are powerless to deal with his misfortune, and, worse yet, returning to break them women ... Why, guys, why are you doing this?

You are looking for a long relationship, not a frivolous affair for one night? A woman with a heart of gold caress you, sorry, it will be a true friend and helper. However, make sure that you can answer it the same kindness - in the end, there will be someone who will appreciate such a treasure appreciated, and you will not see her anymore.

Affection

Yes, there are many things that make men happy - some of them not in this list, and others have, but they have no place here - but after all of the above can be only one conclusion: the first date First date: everything is just beginning   quickly converted into a honeymoon, and when relations are developing so quickly, all but love plays.

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