According to statistics, between 50% and 60% of married men at least once in their lives they have changed their wives. These men can be attentive, caring husbands, and can be rude and demanding unquestioning obedience: change all sorts of people, but there are signs by which men's infidelity is revealed.

Signs that a man - a potential cheater

• He cheated on before. Whether he did it in the current or previous relationships: Change once it easier to decide again than someone who has not ever changed.
• He narcissist. People with narcissistic personality traits believe that in life they rely more than others; in addition, they are confident that they can get away with much. Man-narcissist with relative ease go to treason, because he did not consider it necessary to play by the rules, and because he is convinced that in any case the wife did not give up such a wonderful man as he is.
• He has little sense of guilt. Men who almost feel guilty when we do wrong, is the first candidate in the apostate because they did not hinders the voice of conscience.
• He is a great liar. If a man skillfully lying about whatever it was, it likely will change and successfully lie about why come home later than usual, and where he has to absent himself at the weekend.
• He learned it in childhood. If one or both parents are men had extramarital relationships, it is likely that he, too, will change.

Signs that a man has already begun to change

• He spends less time with you. When you watch television, he is sitting at the computer; you go to sleep, and he stays up late or sleep on the couch; you rarely talk - you live in the same house, but each by itself. Even if a man has no mistress, this behavior indicates that he is ready to change.
• He does not show affection. Men who have started to change, often stop to have sex with their wives or do it less often, with a minimum of caresses; They do not kiss or hug their wives, when they leave and come home, go to bed in their pajamas, and sitting side by side on the couch, observe a rather large distance. All these signs of detachment often point to the fact that the man has another woman, the proximity with which to a pleasant close with his wife.
• Changing habits of computer use. The emergence of a new mailbox, a new page in the social network, or have recently developed a habit to remove the supervision of history can say that the man has a mistress.
• Changing habits of mobile phone use. If before a man quietly left the phone anywhere in your apartment and heard the bell, often asked you to see who is calling, with the advent of his mistress, he is likely to begin to keep your mobile in your pocket or put the phone lock which does not allow you to view the phone book or a message to those who do not know the password. A sign of infidelity may be the fact that the man stopped to call and write SMS in your presence, and to answer the call, she began to go into the other room.
• Longer working hours and new hobbies. Did he really have to work harder or he took up a new sport, but if it is, under various pretexts began to spend less time at home, and you noticed other signs of infidelity, perhaps he devotes several hours a day is not working.
• You catch him in a lie. For example, on Saturday, he said he was going to the gym, your girlfriend and had seen him at the mall. Maybe he bought a new shirt, and possibly stopped for a bouquet for his mistress. One such case could be an accident, but if you catch him in a lie several times it is an alarming sign.
• He is looking for a quarrel. You would think that the man himself provokes quarrels, finding fault with trifles, to which he had not paid attention? Perhaps it is because the quarrel - a convenient excuse to get away from home for an indefinite period.

Causes of male adultery

• Inability to say "no." Some men cheat simply because they are attracted to women, and can not refuse them. Such men, as a rule, and in everyday life are soft and deference; They can be good, caring husbands, of course, if the spouse agrees to a blind eye to this problem.
• The desire to assert itself. For the sake of self-affirmation can change, for example, men who have recently lost their jobs or who are very strong-willed wife, especially if they are constantly accused her husband that he earns enough, ambitious enough and so on. During the crisis, the average age of men may decide to commit adultery, to prove to themselves that they can still be a real macho Macho: errors and problems in behavior .
• The desire to end the relationship. Most men opt for this more direct route and simply tell his wife that he wants a divorce. But some men can not decide on it and give birth to a mistress, knowing that if the wife finds out about the change, she will give a divorce.
• Pressure from friends. He spends a lot of time in the company of people who change their wives, and it is possible that boast. Perhaps they do not call to change it, but it feels a certain inferiority in comparison with them (adolescent desire to be like everyone else, is often found in adults) and, in the end, he decides to keep up with them.
• He believes the presence of his mistress a sign of high status. The apartment, a car, a wife, a mistress - some men find it all the attributes of a successful person and begin to change in spite of the fact that their family life is generally quite satisfied.
• Sexual orientation. It happens that homosexual or bisexual men have the traditional family under the pressure of public opinion, or for other reasons, but to satisfy their desires, they may from time to time to meet with people of your gender.
• Commitment to diversity. For this reason, very often they change the men who got married at a very young age, and / or those who have had very limited pre-marital sexual experience.
• Opportunistic sex. The man had an opportunity to change, and he changed. This often happens in situations where the likelihood that treason Treason: Fall or loyalty to yourself?   He learns his wife is minimal - for example, on business trips, in the resorts, and so on.
• He is convinced that his wife still will not go away from him. Some men cheat because we are sure that his wife is crazy about them and are willing to forgive them all. Sometimes these men do not even take the trouble to take measures to hide infidelity.
• Love. Sometimes men are beginning to change because that really fall in love with another woman. Relationships can start with the innocent online communication or flirting Flirting - this is serious   in the workplace and gradually develop into a novel, which can lead to change and to the destruction of marriage.
• An example of the father or other relatives. Often men are unconsciously following the example of close relatives who have changed their wives; however, it is possible as well: as a child he saw all the negative consequences of betrayal, a man in the future may become a faithful husband.
• Alcohol or drugs. Very often the treason (especially if it's sex for one night) when a person is intoxicated; After he may regret their behavior and perhaps will never change sober.

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