Who needs a guest marriage

In all that concerns the concerned unit of society, people do not get tired to put all kinds of experiments. Civil marriage, even in the post-Soviet society causes a storm of emotions, in the third millennium has become quite familiar and acceptable form of relationship. But many guest marriage is still a novelty. Many people may not fully understand: whether in the form of a marriage relationship formally register, and if this is not necessary, what, in fact, is the marriage?

At first, still under the guest marriage was made to understand marriage, decorated in the relevant organs of state power, but it is assumed that men and women do not actually live together, are common household and raise children together .  Ideological concept of the guest of marriage comes down to the fact that in the first place should be mutual feelings, and certainly not the mutual obligations and personal comfort of each spouse .  Sometimes guest marriage at all follows from the civil, that is, in fact, it is not even a spouse in the full sense of the word, and meet periodically to each other people .  The impetus for a surge in marriages guest was the development of the Internet, people began to meet and fall in love, despite sharing their hundreds and thousands of kilometers .  Not everyone has the ability to throw the former place of residence, work, the usual measured way of life and to go to distant lands to the construction of a new happiness .  So couples only much more convenient to meet periodically, each time enjoying the novelty of emotions and sensations .

The ideal solution for middle-aged

Guest marriage is very often the preferred form of relationship is not for young couples who have a sense of rage over the edge and without each other, they just do not think of themselves, and for middle-aged people - those who are about forty years of age or older. And quite often the guest of marriage initiative comes from the women - those who are called middle-aged ladies Balzac Age . Some of them are widows, some are left alone due to divorce, but since they are still very active and socially, and creatively and physically, of course, they want favors and admiration attitude on the part of members of the opposite sex.

Defenders of the guest of marriage argue its position that such a form of relationship and a beneficial effect on the psychological and physical condition of partners. People adulthood can sometimes feel uncomfortable, even what they have daily sleep together in one bed close. In addition, both can be true to their habits and hobbies, it is not fear that they cause irritation in precious halves.

For strong and self-sufficient

Opponents of such a complicated model of building personal relationships their arguments. Among the first to go to the allegation that it is viable only in a favorable economic and social conditions. In other words, in order to go to the guest marriage and enjoy it, both partners have to be absolutely healthy, financially secure and socially successful. If, for example, one of the spouses and guests will get sick in hospitals for a long time, it is unlikely the second will provide appropriate assistance and support. Most likely, he will find an alternative - in fact the guest marriage nobody owes nothing.

Those who oppose the guest of marriage, it is often called a veiled form of promiscuity and believe that it is based only on mutual sexual satisfaction. The logical conclusion that follows from this - in the case of the disappearance of sexual satisfaction, or even banal degradation sex marriage guest can easily collapse, since he no longer held together by any other values.

Of course, the traditional formal marriage guarantees "they lived happily ever after" does not. In this sense, it is sometimes compared to a machine designed to work even in the most extreme conditions. As with any technology, it can falter and fail in the moment of her least of all this waiting, but by and large, it is able to cope with their tasks. And no innovations like the guest of marriage can not compete with it.

Svetlana Usankova

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