And the children of non-marital society will not complain. Besides offspring alone it was difficult to feed, and one child women do not give birth. That entered into a marriage of necessity.

Now no need of marriage there. She disappeared. Houses can not cook because growing network of accessible restaurants, fast food and so on. Repair of apartments now also in the hands of experienced professionals, and chopping wood and carrying buckets of water must be only a few cottages. And every year it's getting into oblivion leaving exotic.

Having children outside of marriage has become too familiar. Any kiddies happy. And if in the "father" has a dash, this baby will not be called as before, or the bastard a bastard, and will love and cherish. Yes, the state will throw allowances to single mothers. So why bother to get married?

That's it, the trick is that in modern times, marriage generally go is not necessary. One can only WANT to marry or do not want. For this we need to make a voluntary choice. A choice is made very difficult. Every choice - is stress.

Sometimes we make the choice to help spread social stereotypes. Sometimes social stereotypes, on the contrary, prevent us from making a choice. Because the public stereotype of all rows with the same brush. And now all the people are different. The era of individuality.

Somehow, in this society, common stereotype that men marital relations not want, and women want, seek and catch this man. An unfortunate misconception, long-outdated stereotypes that many young people were driven to a standstill.

Both men and women alike want or do not want to enter into the bonds of Hymen. In this matter, as in many others, it is necessary to deal with the position of the individual.

However, despite this very individuality, we should not forget that the man - a social animal, he can not live alone. One sad, terribly sad. Man can not exist without these themselves. He is always in the community, in the "herd." Big "herd" is the country average - a city, a small - "family." Therefore, man as a biological species, tend to seek to cohabit with their own kind. And people are starting to merge with small herds, with the family.

Today it is fashionable to talk about the fall of the authority of the family, its crisis. Oh, people stopped to marry ah number of divorces increases, noise analysts who love to stir up public passions and clever politician is at hand. But this is only tricks and political games!

Yes, the number of divorces increased. But the number of weddings is not decreasing! After all, before the divorce, you must first get married. And young people today, as in the old days - that somehow are traditionally considered good - pretty expensive wedding suit. With cars, balloons, flowers, ribbons, and orchestra and expensive master of ceremonies. It has deployed an entire wedding industry. If there were no weddings, if people are no longer to marry, did so flourish wedding business?

But the fact is that divorce has become greater. Because people do not need to hold. And they break up, if they want to. If you do not want to maintain a life together. If you realize that live together, they can not.

And then the question arises: why human personality can not live together? After all, in terms of basic psychological needs of the animal called human nature to seek life together. Because it alone, living together, satisfy the most basic needs: protection, security, stroking. Without strokes shrinking spinal cord. And if a woman lives alone, who would stroke her? The cat does not count! Although our smaller brothers in mind we really come to the rescue of stress. But a person can not be replaced, it is also a fact

Therefore, when a woman says that she is a good one, it's not quite right. So, something is broken. Most likely, these brave words, she hides a fear. Rather, it is the fear of the opposite sex. But why is this happening? There may be different explanations.

Related Articles

"Single / Single" or anatomy of loneliness

Loneliness - is wrong

I myself

Bitch: character traits