Single / Single or anatomy of loneliness

"Single / Single" or anatomy of loneliness
Women's loneliness

Recently I was in a small town near the capital, where, once at school and noticed a strange trend. All of my classmates who stayed there, either married or going back the next time, that is, there is a very particular man, who wants the same. All my friends in the city are free as birds.

Relationships are formed in the metropolis today, so that every day a growing number of unmarried women and unmarried men. No, of course, it has always been plenty of singles, as well as unmarried women, but today their number exceeds all reasonable numbers ....

I began to think - what is happening? In the race for survival through the ranks of bulky office most of the city people have completely forgotten about love? Or maybe she just did not want them among luxury cars, trendy restaurants and couture? Or is it just a new type of men and women - residents of large cities?

Men

If before a man reaches a certain age, married, and women marry and have children, but now neither one nor the other did not think to do that. The family has become like a relic of the past, it is useless. What for?

Beautiful life in the metropolis attracts more men than family evenings at home. They need to walk, have fun. They change every three years, the car phone in a year, once every six months resting place - so it is accepted. It attributes the life of modern man's big cities. To change women every month or even every week - it is also a rule, or is the norm?

Why start a serious relationship and get married if you can wash in the laundry, buy a meal at a restaurant, and a woman can change in a week, when she starts to want to marry - said the vast majority of modern men - eligible bachelors.

Then there is this part that otbrykivatsya excuses like "if not found his half" and continues the deeply meaningless quest among young girls who are not familiar yet with all the charms of the nature of the modern man. Sometimes they start to play the game of "let's get married" - there are long familiar with the parents, and even distinguish a shelf in your closet for your things, but as soon as the smell of fried, they disappear. Most with some stupid explanation. "I'm not ready or it is not the same, or I did not walk up, in general, I do not know, but I can not give you right now what you deserve."

Not yet completely extinct, and family type of men The types of men and women's attitude to them They are looking for a serious relationship, and quite sincerely want family comfort, ironed shirts and home soup. They are, however, also constitute a group of bachelors, because these are no longer needed modern women who do not want those same shirts to iron and cook soup, because there are restaurants and laundries. They would be men with the same opinions, but those for the same reason, long-term relationship Serious relations: how to understand what it is they not addicted. And they remain in their places - all as free as birds.