In fact, to understand that your husband cheating you is not that difficult. And this is not necessary that he come home with traces of someone else's lipstick on the face with the smell of other people's or women's perfume. If your husband were on the side of the relationship, you will notice it by the changes in his behavior.

Signs of infidelity

• For example, your husband becomes a completely different person and it has nothing to do with the crisis of middle age. He changes his style of dress, changes its appearance and so on. All of this may reflect the fact that he had another woman. Perhaps she invited him to grow a beard, his hairstyle or cologne Perfume and cologne: What's the difference? . So if your husband, who all his life prolezhival on the couch, suddenly began to constantly visit the gym, then maybe he was not trying for you.
• Changes in mood husband can also be linked to the fact that he had a mistress. For example, he can criticize you for that before it completely arranged. This may be your appearance, taste habits and more. A person with dual relationships, trying to find more bad in the one whom he serves, to justify their actions.
• Another sign of her husband's infidelity - is his emotional remoteness. Agree, it is very hard to be emotionally faithful to two people. Some men just can not stand the feeling of guilt because of the fact that they change and therefore move away from their wives. In addition, it is easier to keep it a secret - to communicate less, are less likely to blab.
• The behavior characteristic of people suffering from guilt - this is a sure sign that your husband is cheating on you. He can shower you with gifts and compliments Compliments To help you throughout the house, but it is not because he loves you, and the guilt of the relationship on the side. Others, however, men can avoid looking you in the eye and talk to you alone for the same guilt.
• But you should guard not only that, but any strange and the strange behavior of her husband. For example, you notice how he turns the page on a computer as soon as you enter the room, or notice that he is with someone in a whisper on the phone. All these can be signs that your husband has something to hide.
• Think about it, if your husband suddenly began to disappear is often out of the house, for example, became a stay at work longer or work on weekends. Maybe he spends time with another woman. As a rule, the other woman starts to demand a man, that he more and spend more time with her.
• Especially worth wary if you often can not communicate with her husband, for example, it is very often the phone is switched off. Thus, man can safely spend time with another woman and not be afraid that he was prevented from doing it.
• If you feel that your husband that something is wrong and it could appear another woman, do not ignore your suggestions. Women's intuition never deceives. A woman always knows what a man feels in a given situation and is able to understand if in his life there have been some changes.
• With regard to sex, if it was more or less between you and what you both can talk about the ability to change your husband. For example, if your husband has ceased to be interested in sex at all with you, then maybe he gets it on the side, with another woman. If your husband began to demand from you more sex than usual, it may also be the result of increasing levels of testosterone (because of the emergence of another woman).
• If your husband suddenly became often talk about a new friend, which you have not heard before, it can be is his new passion. This is especially obvious when you start asking about it, and he said it was just a friend.
• If your husband begin to irritate questions about where he was, then it is a sure sign that his conscience is clear and he had another woman.

How to behave

All women like to think that they will never have to deal with the wrong husband. In fact, many of us have to deal with it in their lives. Therefore, no harm will know how to deal with those who are cheating on you.

• One of the main rules of conduct in this situation - do not blame yourself, and put all the blame on the one who is a traitor. Many women blame themselves for what could not give my husband what he wanted, so he found it on the side. Do not try to take responsibility for what happened.
• If you know of treason Treason: Fall or loyalty to yourself?   husband, do not hold all the confident, calm and talk to him about it. Of course, you feel humiliated and frustrated, but try to remain calm.
• Each woman has their allowable limits and what they can or can not forgive. Some women can not forgive any betrayal of her husband. And others can forgive, for example, a kiss, but not sex. You decide that you are ready to forgive, and that - no.
• If you changed your husband, but he sincerely regretted this, you can try to forgive him, but regain its former credibility would be virtually impossible.
• If you forgive her husband for treason, you can dictate their own rules. For example, its phone must always be switched on and so on.
• If your husband has changed you and you forgive him, you need a lot of time to restore the relationship. So you both have to be ready for it.
• Only you can decide whether to give your husband a second chance or not. If you decide to give it a chance, let him know that this is a unique chance both will be gone. If you change it again, it is not necessary to continue such a relationship. Fool me once - shame on you, fool twice - shame on me.
• If your husband has changed you, you try to go through this difficult time, surround yourself with friends and family who can support you in this situation.
• Do not forget to take care of yourself, how hard you may be. You have to be on top, to her husband, who changed you've seen what he can lose.
• If you decide to forgive the betrayal of her husband, put on this point, and continue to live on. It is not necessary to constantly remind him of it. If you can not resist this, it is best not to pursue such a relationship and leave.
• If you feel that your future relationship with her husband after his betrayal impossible and you will not be able to forgive him, then just start to live without him. This is easier said than done, especially if you have lived together for many years and have invested much time and energy in your relationship with him. But we must try to leave it all behind. Over time, everything will fall into place and you start a new life. You will be able to meet and fall in love with another man.
• Each woman decides for itself how to do it in such a situation. But you never want to pursue a relationship with her husband wrong because you are afraid of being alone, or are unsure of yourself.

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