Most men need adult, self-confident, independent woman. Often in his age group men can not find the owners of these "ideal" characteristics. On the other hand, most women dream of a man ambitious, attentive and attractive. That is why the relationship between an older woman and a young man always have a lot of chance of success.

With the growing popularity of online dating sites for adult women and the emergence of such couples in Hollywood (it is worth recalling at least Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, which is under his wife of 15 years) about a romance between older women and younger men all spoke. Although these novels chances of success almost more than the traditional relations between partners of the same age, even in this "ideal" scheme of development of relations has its pluses and minuses.

Benefits

• Less "baggage"

The younger man, the less "baggage" he has to carry with him. A woman who meets a man aged 20 with a small, but not 40-odd years, do not have to deal with the memories of previous failed romances and other emotional problems of the elect, and not have to worry about his ex-wife Former wives: the strategy for the new darling of Conduct   and children.

• More ambition

Men between the ages of twenty to thirty years, far more ambitious: they are driven by the desire and aspiration upward, while older men led by a sense of duty and concern for their own welfare. Romancing the young man would be useful for adult women: his ambition and energy certainly inspired her to achieve their own goals.

• Willingness to learn

Not only in sex, but in everyday life, where young men are more likely to get new information and learning. In addition, always nice when your partner appreciates your experience. As the saying goes, you can not teach an old dog new tricks - but the puppy can be taught everything they need to know. In addition, in contrast to the older men, younger men are not afraid of the achievements of women, but rather appreciate them.

• Attractiveness

We have to admit that the young men mostly look much more attractive than the aging - and physical attraction is not for nothing is one of the most important parts of the relationship. Young men support the form of sufficient and high-quality sex, and to attract the attention surrounding women in any party.

Disadvantages

• Impermanence

If a young man with whom you started dating, has given you to understand that your novel - a temporary phenomenon, do not expect that it will grow into a serious relationship. Most young men serious, stable relationship has not yet been interesting if you are in love, and he was only sex, you will be faced with great disappointment.

• Cash

Young men do not have the financial stability to which you are accustomed to meet with a man of his age. If your young chosen requires you to pay for dinner, or alludes to something that does not mind getting a gift from you - careful, most likely, you caught up with Alfonso. However, the lack of financial stability - not the biggest drawback of the relationship between an older woman and a young man: in the end, in order to be happy together, not necessarily be on the same rung of the economic, social and career ladder.

• Reputation

One of the major shortcomings of the novel of an adult woman and a young man - a reputation that will benefit from such a woman in the eyes of most others. Even if you do not consider yourself desperately fearful of old loser in love, using the very young men for sex - it is likely that some of your friends will think that way, and you should be ready for it.

Modern woman in order to survive economically, no longer need to be sure to marry a man who is older, more educated, more financially successful than her. That is why the age of people in today's society has ceased to be of key importance.

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