How to keep a man: the steps to the goal

"Baba repent, the girls are going to get married," - Russian proverb perfectly reflects the centuries-old experience of men and women in marriage. The choice of action to build a relationship depends entirely on the purpose, for that matter, in any case. How to keep a man, when he looks "left", and you do not want to part with it, and let?

Step one: select the target

If our goal is to charm him, fell in love and throw amuse the vanity, options can be many - from creating a certain image of the femme fatale or a fashion bitch Yes, bitch. And I'm proud of this! A day in the life , According to the choice of strategy created image. Plus a few goals - increase self-esteem, knowledge of the experience of building relationships, understanding the essence of the male. However, the disadvantages of this way too much: every man leaves an indelible mark on the lives of women, moreover, formed the image of frivolous and flighty ladies.

If the purpose of retaining the men - build a serious relationship for years to come, the strategy is completely different. First you need to understand that this man attracted to you what personal qualities helped him to make a choice in your favor. On this depends the tactics of the retention of male attention and develop relations. If he saw you in a harmonious personality, then you go through life together, "looking in the same direction." If he conquered your unearthly beauty, the physical form of support will be a major asset in the game of love. If it has long attracted to the home, and he constantly praises economic wives, friends, it's time to create a cosiness and comfort.

Step Two: we understand male psychology

A very interesting point in the relationship. A great many types of men, that one does not like, the other is looking for all my life. For every product - a merchant. It is therefore important to pay attention to every detail in a relationship with a man. What does he like? What is it annoying? Why did he deny that you like so much? It is best if these questions will be said with your partner. When you manage to bring it to a frank talk, you get a useful food for thought, make a lot of unexpected discoveries. Will only a strategy to implement plans.

Transform an adult is not possible, it does not need to spend their time. However, to find points of mutual comfortable existence is possible and necessary. Studying male psychology, we can understand the world and understand his own essence. Psychologists divide all men into several psycho - kinesthetic, audialy, visuals. The division of the primitive, but, knowing the "red button" of his men can easily understand what he likes - watch, listen to or skip the world through themselves through sensations. Having learned of his addiction, it is possible to influence it through music, words, images, or touch species.

The process of knowledge of male psychology can go on for years. Man is difficult to change over time his life priorities, with age comes wisdom and understanding of the world. It is important to develop together with him, not behind, not ahead. It is best to walk through life in the leg.

Your man began to get involved in a new hobby? Try to read about it, learn more, ask him to tell you. Thus, you become for him the chief listener, an important person in my life. Give him the opportunity to fulfill your potential and create conditions. At the same time its own role also does not have to hide, you can call yourself igniter stars Disclosures talents. Andrei Dementyev, Russian poet, has amazing line: "Let another brilliantly plays the flute, / But even more brilliant listened to you."

Step Three: be prevented cheating

Why do men look "left"? Someone wants novelty relationship, someone looking for variety in sex, the other lacks warmth and understanding in the family. However, the most common cause of adultery becomes a self-affirmation of man. They are trying to prove to others and to ourselves that there is life in the old dog that they wish. Confident man would not seek confirmation on the side.

In all of these cases, no fear of separation Parting: punctuation rules Nor intimidation nor tantrums and clarification regarding the situation does not change. Man is so constituted that he needs variety. This is what you need to make smart woman, always be different for him. You can start by changing the image, change hairstyles image. But you need to change internally and by anticipating their expectations. Only in this case, you can be sure that the whole life for it will not be "read a book".

Step Four: Using feminine tricks

How great arsenal of seduction and retain men. In all ages and times women skillfully they manipulated his companions, using all sorts of tricks. It is enough to enter into any bookstore, eyes rush shelving books Stervologiya, with a detailed description of modern and ancient ways of retaining partners. In one book, the author admonishes - Be unpredictable. Readers begin feverishly to think, how to become a mystery to her boyfriend. Another book has actively encouraged - just help to keep hot sex partner. What to do, if he is not macho?

Arsenal "women's stuff" is large and diverse: some sex toys to help someone travel together and common interests, and someone will adopt the secrets of seduction Secrets of Seduction: how to cast a spell on a man   ancient temptresses. Everything is good in moderation, every hunter - its victim.

Secrets of Seduction great

Egyptian Queen Cleopatra was not a beauty, according to eyewitnesses. However, it is her glory remained a great seductress. It was she who came up with cosmetics and methods of hair removal from the body. She was fascinated by Antony and Caesar. Her secrets are simple and complex at the same time. The queen was very well educated, knew several languages, incredible musical instruments. She had her voice so that everyone who listened to her melodious voice, fell under her charm. Fascinating movement enveloping words, deep and intelligent, piercing eyes - all this makes a compelling Cleopatra. No wonder it has remained for centuries as a Magin, skillfully manipulate their loved ones. Modern scholars have called the gift "sexual hypnosis."

There is no single recipe for retaining her lover. Moreover, the stronger you hold, the more he has a desire to get away. More freedom, maximum confidence, no persecution, hysteria, insults, respect, and a man will always be there. With a harmonious personality is always interesting to live together.

Jeanne Pyatirikova

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