A man and a woman - a completely different creature. They differ not only locate genital - inside or outside, not only the weight, growth or softness to the touch, the man and woman think differently, feel differently and fed also correspondingly differently under identical seemed would circumstances. Yes, and social status of men and women has always been a little bit different: for centuries men have dominated women. While women have started to deal with it.
Yes, women have managed to win here and there a piece of land
Sushi - Japanese delicacy
under the sun. Women are now even possible to vote - not everywhere, but still; in some countries, the court is able to protect his wife from domestic violence - not always, of course, but what progress! Women can own property, can drive a car, to invest in banks and bequeath property's daughter and son-not. Women can learn - not only in the parish school, and not just embroidery, can attend public events without support, can work in the factory, in the office, in the laboratory, in the ministry, not only to raise children or look after the cattle ... But the social equality between man and woman really is not in sight, but the one who will dare to say otherwise - or arrogant liar or a man.
Think about it: women have to prove their ability to perform the functions for which men are considered a priori innate! And the right to the conversation was about the fertilized egg - no! A woman has to prove that she can be a quality supervisor and, moreover, that it is not capable of leading their own kind, and supreme being - man! What can it do to him remarks fined for non-compliance in the period of reference, adjust the flight of his thoughts, and do all that she has five times better - simply in order to be recognized as at least equal.
But women, it turns out - look around. You will see thousands of examples of integrity, beautiful, rich women, happy thanks to his wisdom in the family and successful thanks to his experience in the professional field. Why women can be leaders?
Women are not able to control their emotions
A woman can not enter into an amorphous indifference to the case, which does. Every problem or a joy it will be to pass and through the brain and through the heart. If you think that this negative, you are deeply mistaken: many of their decisions women leaders build on intuition. A person who is engaged in business, knows how important it can be a sixth sense ... The woman, who through all the vicissitudes of the grown up leadership positions can hear your heart, know how to use the gifts of premonition and, to be honest, well learned to manipulate people using their emotions. Those who believe that this is because "women are not able to control their emotions," think too flat - perhaps they are frustrated by their own feeling squeezed into a corner?
Women disparage female subordinates
Female boss always placing more demands on your sex slave.
But this is not resent men you! Fight of two women - a favorite sight men, so women fighting so popular with the male audience. Men hurts the realization that, showing higher demands on female employees, female boss almost motherly attributes of men to being weak, to the fragile flowers that need to be protected and nurtured. But this is just insulting, particularly in light of the fact that any of these flowers may be single-handedly put a couple of mutants. In Quake IV.
And by the way, if the research found that 40% of all the scandals in the workplace provoked by women, the other 60%? It turns out the disaster in the form of male troublemakers? And, if the percentage of the lady-boss in the general segment leaders is only a modest 20%, it turns out that male subordinates and conflict with its chairwoman? Naturally, in this respect, the head of women is only one weapon - rigor and austerity. A careless employees after a scandal only remains that call his boss bitch
Yes, bitch. And I'm proud of this! A day in the life
and come up with their silly explanations quarrelsomeness.
Business - masculine occupation ...
Sure, cooking - female. That is why in the world there is no good chef men ... At the time when the men finally realize that business is called not only the semi-supply timber, steel and just really not outright criminal fraud with drugs or weapons, to live in this world will be easier not only to women.
Known for their business acumen "fashionable lady" Donatella Versace and Diane von Furstenberg, Yelena Baturina, or Beguman Dogan Faralali rating of Forbes, JK Rowling, Abigail Johnson, Liliane Bettencourt, Susanne Klatten - they were able to compete with men. And while men did not.
And if the "real", "male" and all that a contract to supply the manure and sealed by a strong male hands "after a copious libations in the dimly lit bar in the company of half-naked beauties" (C), the multi-million dollar contracts are usually signed in bright office, in the presence of well-dressed executives and lawyers. And if someone then going to celebrate the success in a place that has been described above, it is a private matter. Rather, the cause of his health, which will not last long.
An example of Hillary Clinton
Hillary Clinton was never pretty, it is a historical fact. It was and is a smart, strong, energetic, single-minded, hard-working, self-sacrificing. She wanted to become an astronaut, and when those dreams collapsed, decided to devote himself to public administration. It has never been any "one more little thing" or the hippie
Hippie style: create your own world
Nor a champion of the world - it has always been a politician. And that's what attracted plain woman Hillary handsome ladies' man, and Bill - will, which he himself he has never been.
Due to the fact that she was a smart woman, Bill Clinton became the only US president, detached from its leadership position for what ... he - man. And like a real woman, she never complains about her stupid husband.
Together they have built their professional careers and post, which takes Hillary now - one of the highest leadership positions US - proof that a woman can be a leader, and a good leader.
Same thing with Margaret Thatcher's why her nickname "Iron Lady" - proof that it is a man in a skirt? Did someone say "Iron gentleman"? And why iron is associated with men? Are they just as quickly rust?
Women vindictive
Yes, it's true, especially all women a very good memory. Women do not forget the offense - particularly strong and successful women. Do you know why? Resentment points to a weakness, but a woman leader can not afford to be weak - too great a luxury for her. Woman keeps in memory portfolio grievances in order to know in what situations it is necessary to be particularly careful and collected.
A legend that men are forgiving, but only learn from their mistakes - no more than a legend. It's just that most men, poor memory, and something to write - too lazy.
A female boss
The glass ceiling that limits the rights of women, there is, of course, not without reason. His polish and carefully groomed men - not all that happy, but many that afflicts. Most men still believe a woman or an object of sexual hunting or potential wife / mother, who lives on the principle of the three "to» (Kinder, Kirche, Küche), or bone whim deity withdrawn from the body of a man, or unclean creature, fiend, or animals ... Few people recognize in it the same skills and abilities as himself. Thanks to a higher power for those few who see a human woman.
Natalia Rudenko
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