Energy vampires - a person who is not able to maintain its own energy or life force, so it is fed by other people who have a higher level of energy. Energy vampires are unhappy, it is difficult to find joy in themselves, so they seek it outside.

Imagine someone of your friends to be around that pleasant and joyful. With them is good, safe, their joy is contagious, and you can spend hours in their company. You feel cheerful, happy and alive.

Now imagine someone who often complains dramatizes events unhappy and constantly whines. What is to be around such people? Does not it frustrating? You feel tired and uncomfortable. Perhaps there is that you have to have a rest after a telephone conversation or a meeting with this person, because you feel exhausted. Perhaps this man - an energy vampire and it robs you of energy, joy and happiness.

Types of energy vampires

There are several types of energy vampires. Here are some of them:

• The victim - believed that the whole world against it. Constantly whining or crying, trying to be fed by the attention of other people.
• Prosecutor - always blames others and do not take Beret - a symbol of French charm   responsibility for their actions. He shouldered the burden on others, passed on to them his guilt and deprives them of energy.
• Drama Queen - attracts attention, dramatizing events. Mark brings to the extreme negative energy, thus taking away energy from others.
• Obayashka - jokes, he talks a lot, wanting to be the center of attention. He wants other people's energy was directed at him.
• Envious - want what others have, unhappy that is, trying to take what is not theirs.
• Gossip - dissatisfied with their own lives, so is interest in other people's lives.
• Notorious - pulling the other down to the level of their own low self-esteem.
• Paranoid - too anxious and afraid. Such people are surrounded by chaotic energy, causing an imbalance of energy in others.

Energy vampires are of different types. It is important to note that some of them may be your family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, vendors or those who travels with you on public transport. It can be friendly, normal people, but in moments of adversity, illness, or stress, their energy can be very low, and they drain happy, healthy people.

Some of them need medication or professional help. Others - no. It's just a capricious, overly fastidious people requiring attention at any cost. They do not believe that they do something wrong, and turn your behavior in life. Rather, such people will never change, even if you sit next to them and help them find a way out of the situation. You always have to be close to them, hold their hand, assuring them that things will get better, and lead them in the right direction.

Communication with energy vampires extremely exhausting and frustrating as they are also very deceptive. This means that you can spend a lot of time with them, helping them cope with the situation and feel better, and begin to feel that we have achieved some progress. It seems that the vampire was a bit better, and he expressed deep appreciation to you for your help. You leave him with a feeling that done today is something very good. But later, you find out that it was only a temporary moment of relief. When you are not around, the vampire immediately returns to its previous state. And you start all over again, trying again to send it to a better life.

Signs that you are dealing with an energy vampire:

• You feel exhaustion, fatigue (even after a phone call), fatigue, malaise.
• You can not concentrate, suppressed, appeared headache Headache .
• Lack of motivation.
• You notice the discomfort being in their presence.
• You feel fear, worthlessness, unhappiness.
• At a meeting with them, you have something in the breast is compressed.

A few tips to help protect yourself from energy vampires

• Knowing the signs of the energy vampire, you can calculate it.
• Take a deep breath, focus on yourself, and be steadfast. Do not let a vampire drop you on the level.
• Set border, say "no." You have the right to leave and not to do with him.
• Do not react, remained neutral. Vampire become bored and it will look for another victim.
• Cut the imaginary unit. If you believe that someone acting on your devastatingly, imagine a unit linking it with you, and thrust his imaginary ax.
• Use an imaginary light. If you are in a particularly unpleasant situation, imagine that you are standing in the shower, from which flows silvery light to cleanse you and wash away all unpleasant. You can also protect yourself by using a shield from an imaginary world, imagine yourself surrounded by a white or light pink and mentally hold your energy to yourself. You can not only protect their mental energy, but also to send energy vampire love.
• Wear crystal pendants or some piece of jewelry that will give you an amulet of power in difficult situations. For example, it is believed that the rose quartz soothes and brings love and compassion.
• Think about what you can learn from this situation. For example, if you attract jealous rival, and people may you behave the same way. If you have worked their problems, these people will become bored and they will no longer bother you.
• The best thing you can do - is to surround yourself with happy, positive people and to be happy and positive.
• Think about whether there is someone in your life who is stealing your energy. Using the recommendations above, try to protect its precious energy.

Keep in mind that you yourself can be an energy vampire and take energy from their loved ones. This happens unconsciously, but know that your mood and low energy can affect the ones you love. With this easy to handle, but the knowledge - the key to victory. When you recognize that you can influence those around you, you will have the motivation to find the positive side of their situation. Remind yourself of those happy, happy people with whom you like to spend time. Develop these good qualities and you will attract happy people, and people will enjoy your company.

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