Bitch - it's the exact opposite of the ideal image of a cute girl that was cultivated for centuries. Lovely girl helpfully, inclined to obey - especially men, always ready to make concessions, does not express its opinion, if it is not asked - in a word, to be with her is very convenient. She always apologizes for everything - even when it is not to blame, it is ready to take on additional tasks just because he can not say "no", she always smiles and seems to not know how to raise your voice.

Perhaps it is a type of women has led to the fact that in recent decades, is becoming more common type of the other - a woman a bitch who climbs his words, bravely defending their interests and not yield to anyone - any other women or men .  In the twentieth century, women have realized that they can manage their own lives, to make choices, not looking at anyone, that they finally do not have to be nice and please everybody around .  The popular image of bitches, numerous books, articles and even courses to help women who want to be a bitch - a reaction to the suppression of women's inner strength, which lasted for centuries .  However, to be a bitch does not mean to destroy a feminine traits such as diligence, the ability to empathize, softness and flexibility; rather, it means to have the ability, if necessary, be tough and perseverance to achieve their goals and do not give anyone else just because a woman, according to the medieval stereotypes, should be soft and pliable .

Signs of bitches

Despite the fact that many people - especially men - are bitch with hostility or convictions to be a bitch, a lot more pluses than minuses. At least the following signs bitch is hardly impaired.

• She knows how to be honest. Women who call a spade a spade, often called a bitch, and it should not take as a compliment Compliments . After all, honesty with yourself and others - one of the most important conditions for a harmonious life. Because it is possible to lose some of their friends, but your circle of friends becomes more qualitative. It should be remembered that the bitch does not normally use their straightness to deliberately hurt someone. For example, during an argument about politics or the discussion of problems in the relationship with your partner, it will be extremely fair, but say nothing about the dress girlfriend that its full, or it just does not fit the type of figure. Although, if a friend asks whether her new dress, bitch answer honestly, but not because he wants to hurt, but because he wants good friend and believes that in such cases, honesty - the best policy. Honesty bitches is not only aimed at the surrounding world, but it itself: it is its most strict judge, always notices own mistakes and working hard to correct them.
• She is confident in herself. Perhaps the best part of life bitch - a boundless self-confidence How to gain confidence in themselves? . Do not confuse this with the confidence of self-confidence: a bitch is not taken over the case, which for her obviously too difficult, does not humiliate others, and does not require the impossible. However, she is able to assess their capabilities (thanks to the honesty with him), clearly knows what it is worth, and do not settle for less. Bitch able to admit their mistakes, but if it is certain that the rights will be on his to the last.
• She did not need approval. Bitch really care what others think of them. They operate on the basis of their own interests, and evaluate their actions by their same criteria. If the terms of bitches she does the right thing, it is very difficult to stop, and it is difficult to get her to do what she considers wrong. It does not matter, as it is called behind or in person, for it matters only that she thinks of herself.
• She gets what she wants. If you - a bitch, then you achieve what you want. But often the opposite is true: if a woman gets her way, it can be considered a bitch. What does this mean for a woman who has successfully developed its business on the board of a large corporation, or earns a living from their creativity? No.
• She did not need to apologize. Cute girl tend to apologize even for what she was not guilty - for example, when faced with a person in public transport, it is the first to apologize, no matter who was the culprit of the collision. If it ever happen to express an opinion contrary to the interlocutor, it is several times during his speech to apologize for something that does not agree with the reviewer. We bitch is different - they do not apologize for the fact that someone does not agree or do not meet someone's expectations. They did not apologize without good reason. But if there is such a reason, they will not hesitate to bring a sincere apology.
• She did not need to hold back. Bitch allows himself to live to the fullest: a lot and she is happily working without fear of being branded as a workaholic, and heartily rejoiced at rest. It organizes your life the way you want it; she would not take holidays, sipping cocktails on the beach, only to support the company and not to go beyond the image of a glamorous girl - if she really like, such as mountaineering. She would not live with a man who does not love, with whom she is not interested, which did not respect her. Bitches allow yourself to do what you want and change life on your own.
• It can be happy without a man. Center of life bitch is never a man; it always has plenty of hobbies, friends, it works a lot and travels and, in general, it is satisfied with their lives, regardless of whether she lives alone or with a man. Even when it appeared a permanent relationship, she continues to devote much time to his hobbies and friends. Male for it is important, but it does not get a sense of her life - maybe that's why so attracted to bitches and easily kept men.

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