Treason - a meanness that can ruin even the close-knit family. And yet, statistics show that it is not only capable of but many are, and then trying to "traces" and hide effects. Why men are eager to share their exploits with friends, but carefully hide them from their girls?

10. Because she never even know

If you could commit the perfect crime, would you tell the police about it? The act is perfect, and nothing connects you with another woman. You have broken all ties, and made sure that the information about the change never gets to your girl. It not only does not know about the change, she had no reason to even think about that possibility. In this case, the only way to let her know about the change - to tell everything that had happened to. Refer to the proverb, "The less you know, sleep tight" - in the case of treason Treason: Fall or loyalty to yourself?   frankness you only hurt.

9. Because the other woman did not mean for you

In most cases, betrayal - a random act: it is possible to make it prompted you too much alcohol, and perhaps it was the first and last time in my life when, without doing so, you would have felt sorry for the rest of his life. Be that as it may, this will never happen again - and thus no need to confess to his girlfriend in a single perfect error. If you had to recognize one ever making a mistake, apologizing would require more than one month.

8. Because it would give her trump card

After telling his girlfriend about change, you hereby give her all the cards: each of your quarrel, she will finish the reminder of your changes, and you will never win the dispute. If the smallest mistake like not lowered toilet seat your girl remembers you for months, the treason she will never forget.

7. Because it ahead of you

Why do you think that you - the only one capable of treason? Deciding to be frank and tell your girlfriend about the change, you risk hearing the same recognition in return. Did you really want to know that she, too, you change - and perhaps a person you know? However, even this possibility is a bright side: in the end, you finally hear a true story about a colleague, with whom she had lunch almost every day.

6. Because it will take revenge

It is likely that when your girlfriend finds out about the change, a break-up it will not be enough - she wants revenge. The most important thing - that it may well succeed: she knows all your secrets, communicate with your friends, family, work colleagues and other people important to you. Nothing can stop it spread about you dirty and false rumors - that could have an effect on the future novels.

5. Because it will take

Perhaps it is - the most obvious result of candor she hears a story about infidelity and disappear. She just did not have another choice but to pack up and leave all of your life. However, perhaps it will take not only their stuff - and your friends in common, all the things you bought together, your life, to which you are so accustomed to, and even your pets. Living with guilt, eventually, it may be more comfortable than life without your girl and share "baggage".

4. Because you love her

This is the reason why your relationship is still going on. Maybe you do not know how to show it, but you really do not care about - otherwise random infidelity would become a lasting relationship on the side. Do you really love her - otherwise I would not feel so disgusting. Treason - in itself a bad thing, but talk about this, you will cause her more pain. Instead of openly talking about the change, and ask for forgiveness, to apologize in another way - by becoming a better boyfriend than to treason, and to show how much is actually your girl means to you.

3. Because it is selfish

Frank story about the change to your girl will bring relief only to you: you have changed it to meet their own animal instincts, and now are trying to tell her, because the sense of guilt prevents you to live comfortably? Frankness in this case - one of the most selfish acts. For the first time in a long time to think about the feelings of the girl, not that it will bring relief to you.

2. Because she does not want to know about it

All women believe they need a man who will be able to share with them all. Women always mention candor among the most important qualities of men, but in fact do not even realize what they had to face would be if a man really began to tell everything. In fact, if the man would start to disclose all their secrets and secret thoughts occur quite logical - a woman change her mind about him. The same applies to adultery. Maybe your girlfriend has repeatedly said that he prefers to know the truth, but in reality, she will feel much better in the dark. If she finds out about all the details, it will again and again to think about the story until I bring to mind both of you.

1. Because history can not be turned back

Suppose you are admitted to treason - but immediately regretted his decision. In any case, it's too late: in love nothing can bring back. Once Pandora's box is open, dirty secrets no longer hide, and your relationship changed forever. They will never be the same, and your girl will never trust you again - although, perhaps, be able to forgive you of treason.

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