What we can not speak with the man: the intricacies of communication

Spoil even the ideal relationship is a snap - just tell the person just a couple of unpleasant things. If women are not biting tongues, probably thousands of failed romances could end with a happy marriage. A wise woman always knows what under no circumstances can not say with a man, and that, oddly enough, helps her through the years to be cherished, loved, happy, even if it can not be called a written beauty.

Diplomatically women do know that it is not necessary once again to belittle himself in the eyes of men misplaced self-criticism. She would not mention it during their previous sexual experience, and, moreover, to paint things of bygone days in bright colors. Another taboo subject - relatives of the lady who is not very good fate: for example, someone was in prison, someone is drunk, and someone abusing drugs. You can not anticipate how the future will develop into a relationship with this man, and he will not abuse the pressure on the pressure points. And even before marriage, during courtship and meetings, it is not necessary to articulate a man of his plans for the coming life together, including discussing the organization of a wedding celebration, if not a proposal was made, to discuss planning apartments, the number of future children, and so on.

Tribute male ego

Every man in my heart feels, if not perfect, then at least very close to him. It is determined by the nature of men - for each of the stronger sex lives a potential leader and a winner. And the winners are not looking for flaws.

And because a tribute to the notorious male ego is necessary in certain cases to give a tactful pomalkivaniem as it would be desirable to pin or to give a plain truth in the eye. Men's weaknesses are not discussed in whatever they were to be it imperfect figure, sexual ability, the ability to earn money and so on. Of course, to guide their chosen the right path is possible and necessary, but the main helpers in this case, choose discreet and unobtrusive - even if he thinks that all initiatives come from him. It is inadmissible to address him phrases like "Where were my eyes when I marry you? "" And where only your hands grow? "" You're nowhere adapted "," From you'll never get any help! ", "I am tired of you! "" All the husbands - normal men, and I have - it is not clear what! "And everything else in the same spirit.

Praise to the wrong address

It is very desirable in the presence of his men to praise the other members of the stronger sex, especially his friends, colleagues, friends - because then it can creep into your head the idea that the lady of the heart secretly like it. It is undesirable and often let rave reviews at their former boyfriends, lovers or husbands. Because then it is reasonable to question arises: if they are so good, why you are no longer with them and with others?

On the whole attention of the male population - not the best topic for intimate conversations with your loved ones. Many women think that they have just chosen one razogreyut in interest to the person, if you talk to him about who drove them to the car to work, presented them with a bouquet on the eighth of March and said standby Gift Compliments . In fact, male jealousy Management of jealousy   - An extremely dangerous thing. It may turn out permanent control of his beloved, the incessant calls for work, doubts about the faithfulness gloomy mood, if not an initiative emanating from a man finally break off relations.

And quite often, and from young ladies, and from mature ladies can hear complaints about the fact that men do not give them gifts, and this is a very significant moment in the development of relations. But the woman herself often discourages his admirer any desire to give her gifts: for example, the first a present she meets with sour frown on his face, and the question "What did you bring me? "Or" Why do I need it? ". Any man's gift should be taken with a smile and a thank - only if the man never lost the desire to please his beloved.

Svetlana Usankova

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