It's no secret that part with a man who was for a certain time next to you is not easy, even if you know that your future relationships are meaningless. After all, you will not only give up the girl, but also to share all of your joint property. But it is also unpleasant divorce. However, if you really feel that your relationship is at an impasse, try to understand it to his girlfriend as soon as possible. In your best interest to part with each other in a civilized and peaceful as possible.

How to soften the blow

• Try to think in advance how you tell your girlfriend to break off relations. If it is a complete surprise to her, then be prepared for the fact that she is very angry and upset. A few days after an unpleasant conversation is best to stay with friends to give her a chance to get used to the idea of ​​break and think about how it can be more.
• Starting a conversation is best to calm and that it has many positive qualities. You have to let her know that she deserves better and it would be unfair to lie to her, why did you decide to tell it like it is. Give her a chance to ask you whatever she wants, and try to answer all her questions.
• During the conversation, it is important that you stay calm and not let emotions overwhelm you. To discuss such important issues as the question of who should move, and who stay in your joint home, as well as fair division of joint property.
• If you are unable to move out, then try to reach an agreement about how you will live on under one roof. Do not try to start a new relationship immediately and bring a new friend to your house once shared.

The best way out of this situation - is to maintain friendly relations.

Errors and barriers

Most guys do not know how to leave a woman if lose interest in it and prefer to just stop and call her to respond to her messages. But this is not the best way to break the relationship with the girl. A lot of guys are afraid of a frank conversation with the girl that they want to leave, for two reasons - it is a feeling of guilt and strong feelings for her.

Most men are much easier to give a waiver girl on a first date First date: everything is just beginning Than to do it later, after days, weeks and months spent together. You understand that you are bound by memories, and how much power it has invested in you, trying to make you better. You'll have to tell her that you want to leave it, but you're afraid to see her tears and resentment. You may even have to make new friends, so as not to communicate with those who have been your mutual friends. This feeling of guilt is very difficult to go through, but you'll have to try to overcome it, if you really decided to leave with his girlfriend.

Another obstacle that prevents a woman to give up - this is the hope that your feelings come back again and everything will be as before. Unfortunately, feelings and rarely return a relationship sooner or later still deadlocked.

But if you do not like your girlfriend, then you have to break a relationship with her and leave her. You have one life, and do not spend it on something to live side by side with the unloved man. It may seem cruel, but it's true. If you have time to be parted again, in the future, your life will only get worse, because you have to pretend and deceive the girl. Is that fair?

Advice

• If you do decide to part with the girl, then do not delay this conversation for a long time. Many guys just do not dare to openly and frankly tell his girlfriend that they want to leave, citing the fact that it is necessary to wait for the right moment.
• If you are ready to tell his girlfriend to break off relations with her, do not do it in the bedroom. You agree that you will look silly when announced his decision, while at the same time, both naked. Although farewell sex there is nothing wrong. It is best to make this a serious conversation took place in a restaurant in the park for a walk, or in any other place. The main thing is that it did not take place where you made love.
• Another point which is important if you decide to part with the girl and tell her about it. Be sure to do it in person, or via a SMS or e-mail. So you give to understand your girlfriend that you're still a good feel about it and be able to leave on good terms.
• Once you tell your girlfriend to break off relations, you have to stop talking to her and your task - to give her to understand it. What is the point to break the relationship, if you continue to communicate every day. You both need time and opportunity to be apart from each other. Refrain also from communication via email and via SMS.

After parting Parting: punctuation rules   you will certainly be hard the first few weeks. But you have to be strong and not to change its decision. Life goes on and you have to continue it without that, that was part of your life the last few weeks, months or even years.

Remember that know how to part with the girl - it is as important as to know how to get acquainted. If you do not believe in yourself, then ask for help to a psychologist, who will give you good advice, how to behave in this difficult situation.

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