The scandals, quarrels, recriminations, throwing dishes - all in the past. My wife packed up and left. Finally, and slamming the door leaving a light scent of familiar spirits. Abandoned by her husband for some time will remain in a stupor or euphoria, depending on what led to such a drastic the decision and how it happened. And then have to seek the answer to the question, how to live? ..

It is known that male and female psychology - the concept of largely mutually exclusive. A woman appreciates married emotional stability, which is formed by such components as the love of his wife and children, financial independence, the ability to rely on a strong man's shoulder. Men consider family life in many ways from the standpoint of comfort, which she provides. Of course, from the feelings towards members of the household, too, will not go, but all the banality - ironed shirts laundered socks, cleanliness, comfort, a delicious dinner will not lose relevance Never. Only the awareness of the value of these simple pleasures are often life's It comes too late. Much later, slamming the door.

But first wounded male ego will demand satisfaction. At least in the framework of the internal conflict. It can neither men nature painless realize that appeared abandoned. Self-hypnosis at a small fraction of imagination in such cases it works perfectly. And now, man begins to believe that he drove his wife is that she is guilty before him, that he would do well without it.

With such a "legend" is usually sent for a moral support from friends. To speak out, remember most pleasant moments family life, reproach "thankless" that is gone. In some point not help but tell the truth. How, why and what actually happened. Friends so good that understand sympathize help. And offer, of course, pour vodka mountain.

Flushing problems in alcohol - traditional national feature. Here, as they say, it would be a reason. A strong emotional stress, caused by the departure of a loved one, unfortunately, it is not only a cause, but for many, a direct guide to action, to the use and abuse. Friends razopyut after a bottle or two, and will disperse to their families closer to Fireside and abandoned her husband left one on one with the problem, and remains vodka. How can you resist and not to drink? Do not go for the second and third? .. And a sad outcome.

Alternatively, you can fully immerse themselves in the work. Become real workaholic under the surprised looks of colleagues and superiors misunderstanding. Work into a frenzy, to be overtime, but would not return to empty apartment, where no one is waiting for a long time there is no comfort, comfort, does not smell freshly brewed coffee. However, there is one unpleasant probability. If colleagues do not know about the misfortune, they can rally against single and try elementary survival of the group. Look pale against the backdrop of a workaholic nobody wants.

At the other extreme, which sometimes fall readily abandoned husbands - a spin several novels, trying to prove to myself and others that it is a man-about-ho-ho is! That any will be happy with him, best if not the only one, or even two. Headlong, without thinking about the consequences, Mount-womanizer tries to get acquainted with each counter, without realizing that It looks at the same time comical or ridiculous. Because the novels on one night a serious smart women do not need a new lasting relationship right after separation Parting: punctuation rules   with a close family man man, however, as a woman, rarely They are ready. Failed period of social adaptation, and the fear of being again may cast somewhere subconsciously beep warning: not now it is too early.

Of course, each case is different. Parting because, that her husband forgot to congratulate the wife's mother on his birthday because his wife fell in love the other - are two different things. Depending on the cause, and to think how to be farther. To begin to understand yourself, to find the starting point, which led to this result, remember all the subsequent events. Analyze the situation may have to consult a psychologist to solve the main the question was the final separation or all can be corrected. Unless first you have to find the courage to accept and not to fall into depression Depression . At the end all, to restore order in the house and learn how to prepare for a real man does not problem. In another case, it is necessary to find such arguments to help convince a loved one to return. Because each of us should cherish his half.

Alexey Chernov

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