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Seryoga I quote:
So maybe there is something to love me for EXAMPLE BEZKORYSTNO not for his purse and not for what you give it.
  Dear Sergei, women - not only objects of male desire, but also a mother. And we choose above all a father to your child (albeit subconsciously), so sorry - selflessly does not work, we have a different level of responsibility.
To quote Maria:
You are a better starve than eat something horrible and it is better be alone than with just anyone .   (AmarHayam) I have 2 years of his precious life spent on a man whom I thought loved . We lived together, but he initially acted as a consumer . Aid not to mention the material I have from him did not see, though he unemployed was ipoluchal decently and in bed udavolstvie deliver not trying, I'm tired of being his servant and not feel any moral or any other support, I had sent him, and KNOW NOW I believe that most experiences are about loneliness, nonsense! Are you zhenschina not clear: men are now some of these 2 million left the bulk of drinking, smoking, in the internet, I do not say anything-most concern and moralnobolnye . Who to look for what? Give birth to children of cattle ? It is better to clean the feathers themselves and live for themselves and their parents are . But better to give birth on the tube at least some guarantee of quality . The men in the majority of shit regardless They have education, money or not, or a bunch of smaller ones to seek or not to communicate at all .
Mary fully agree with you :-) if somewhere and look for happiness, it is not only in Russia - we men of normal left seems all some little thin, to anything not seek, do not want to create a family and marry only if the pregnant woman has. I am alone for almost a year and did not want to associate myself with anybody after the last parting, the last time I killed during the last vestiges of hope to meet the love of her husband and most importantly ...
Hello .  Here are drunk and want to speak .  So to say that the accumulated .  Although it takes probably write a book like in a film said: "Twenty years in a coma" .  Over time, I understand that the world is a surprisingly complex and at the same time a simple thing .  Owned And we, the human world is living in the same animal principle: weak (ie unattractive) lose, strong (read: attractive, ualnye ***) survive .  Not literally, of course .  They leave descendants .  They live, they have a full life, consisting of love, passion, stupid fights, reunions, skheha and tears, *** and in the end .  They live a full life .  And I imagine so imagine: a circle in the center of this circle is just the same people whose lives are full of events, relationships, feelings, .  The farther away from this center, the less full of life .  On the periphery of the most miserable, those who have never loved, who all his life suffer because of loneliness, because of a lack of love .  Both men and women .  Alas .  I belong to the first group of people, I accept their fate .  I am 34 .  Every day I repeat to myself, this is my fate, I do not belong to the center of the circle .  I'm not attracted to women, in terms of Darwin's theory, I lost in this life, I have no future .  While holding on .  Completely immersed in his work: the only thing that can occupy the void .  I am a man, I can not accept it .  I can adapt the children, in the end .  I feel sorry for these women .  It is difficult to . In general, you should always think as if you were looking at your life as a very old man .  It's probably not easy .  But you need to listen to the elderly .  In turn, not all of what they say is true, then you need flair .  Almost no doubt that in the last minutes of my life I'll be in my heart weep remembering how worthless and empty life I had .  I talk with her "old man" sometimes .  What can I do? Even the "knowing" their future . It's all relative .  Our pain can not be compared with the difficulties of many people in Africa, even in Russia (the Ukraine, etc. . d . ) .  Logically, this means to me, I can even help someone .  It may well be .  Affection .  This is the meaning of life .  Ever wonder? What is the meaning of life .  Of course, in love .  If you love someone, you do not ask this question .  All .  No questions .  Love is life .  A friend of mine insisted that love is different: love for children love to men, etc. . P .  I did not argue .  I knew that love is one .  Read Garshina . Okay, I'm Sober .  I wish you all the love .
Quoting Lone Wolf:
And sometimes you just need the support, the support of a man who not only understand, but maybe you will have to help cope with etim.Kak sorry that now "every man for himself"
You're right when there is a best friend who will always understand support in difficult times and help !!!
I quote a point? :
and what it means to love? Why say, "I'm in love / camping at first sight"? This dullness of modern man? Rather, you need to say, 'I want / and his / her first sight "(putting it mildly thought) Love it also must be for" something ", but not just so, and it does not zakrasivye eyes, because those eyes will eventually become normal and nothing in them will not be such interesnogo.Na my opinion, the one who says that now I'm in love / camping, and then divorced / mocked anyone they do not lyubili.A that if love - it osoznananie that you can not be without him / her and not in terms of attractiveness, but in terms of conversation, actions, conclusions ("something" greater) but it all takes time ... and not momentary intersection of sight, and that's it, we fell in love =) Then where to take this time? where to get the situation when in fact manifest the true relationship to you. It seems like all the hard work, but also should not be ... the question as it should be?
Of course the main actions of the spiritual Miri, etc., but if the external man does not appeal to you, you do not want to know it! This is a complex somoe: time! It is necessary to hold it together! If someone really sunk into the soul, it is there! These people are called love at first sight! Personally, I have this: if there is no spark at once, she did not appear at all!
Dmitry quote:
How interesting it turns out, there are so many lonely people, and all of this just crave beautiful and bright love, but as you will pass on the street - continuous evil grimaces! Maybe we should smile more often?
  "This is exactly, what would fall in love with a man, you need to open up, to show my inner peace! And it's not easy! So go all wearing a mask of indifference, but true feelings and prsyatsya out! That is virtual dialogue!
Quoting Alex:
All modern girl "dinamistki" and stupid "dummy" .Luchshe be alone in this world of lies and pretense.
This is nonsense !!! Educated girls, according to statistics, much more! If you like to be lonely, what you do on this forum? So not all happy, something is missing? I do not believe that komuto may like solitude!
To quote Maria:
You are a better starve than eat something horrible and it is better be alone than with just anyone .   (AmarHayam) I have 2 years of his precious life spent on a man whom I thought loved . We lived together, but he initially acted as a consumer . Aid not to mention the material I have from him did not see, though he unemployed was ipoluchal decently and in bed udavolstvie deliver not trying, I'm tired of being his servant and not feel any moral or any other support, I had sent him, and KNOW NOW I believe that most experiences are about loneliness, nonsense! Are you zhenschina not clear: men are now some of these 2 million left the bulk of drinking, smoking, in the internet, I do not say anything-most concern and moralnobolnye . Who to look for what? Give birth to children of cattle ? It is better to clean the feathers themselves and live for themselves and their parents are . But better to give birth on the tube at least some guarantee of quality . The men in the majority of shit regardless They have education, money or not, or a bunch of smaller ones to seek or not to communicate at all .
Because of such moral urodok good guys can not find the girls.
I read you, and I will give in no case do not despair, tune into the positive and what is required to meet the love !! For you, this one will not do. Just believe that somewhere there is your significant other and your faith will be given to you! If you are depressed, and moaning that everything is bad, and do not believe that there is a decent lyudi- you do in your life and attracting negative situations like this! Enjoy life, give love !! And it will come back to you !!! Good luck to all!! Believe in a better future, and it is bound to be so !!! ))) :-)
But I'm Che say. I lived a little while (19) but in such matters on their own experience taught Coy - nothing. Vobshem I tried to find a life partner more than once (this is primarily to understand and support), but because we all need those who have more and biceps tolshe purse. That otshivali me over and over again. so it is best to drink a beer with friends, help their parents at home, go to the movies, so much that can be done. But do not waste your time in vain to search for the second half. pain and deception. and never bother at this. good mood much more ...
Comrades, I read this idle talk - a nightmare some! Sorry for himself ?! Che sense whining? Look around! Life is Beautiful! Did not you yourself secretly dreamed (when they lived with the unloved person) to finally get rid of him, to be alone, to get a taste of life freely - that will get what you ask! How can you put on a cross, and watered all the men? - You say this world - I do not need a man, they grams . but a better at times .  So what, that was a bad experience! After black stripes - should always be white! It's the law! Have you tried to dream no matter what? And you do not think about the fact that what is going on with you today-result of your inaction or bad thoughts yesterday? What is the solution? - Think positively! Life gives you a chance to be alone with yourself, enjoy the company of the best man in the world - yourself! Use this time in full, get ready for a meeting with the beloved, dream, visualize, think about the world of positive, smile and look as if he is now meet the man of your dreams .  Remember, depression - is a sin .  It should not be watered himself and his destiny dirt and sit at home in torn bathrobe, unwashed head and did not eat cakes and everything, just to console himself and to give to others and the world smile, love, joy - all will come back to you a hundred times! Good luck!
:-) Maybe my situation seem banal .   In general, I believe that love is .  I have many friends who are happy . One of them writes: When we walk, he is afraid to look me in the eye, but when it's cold, he takes my hand and puts in his pocket) Loneliness is inside a person eats slowly and irreversibly . First enjoy the freedom and lots of free time, I thought revolves around a lot of guys who would like to meet with me, but it's a huge mistake . " .   we are free and we can not get away from their freedom .  We also know that the individual is inexorably alone "(Yalom and . ) Further, "but you're cool," pretty face, and most importantly a great and rich inner world that nobody sees . And you start to think: Why do I have such a good and one? and begin to claim itself, appears a lot of complexes . But sometimes in another case: a young time may not come, but for mature people train left because of a mistake they ever made . In the product Kuprin "Garnet Bracelet" depicts a similar situation .  I agree with all who said that in the net, the clubs can not meet the very not because men are bad, but because they are just not for you . Well, you'll meet some guy, and at this time is the same half of this guy will roar into the pillow, because there is possibly close . And you get yourself torturing and . It's like in the movie "Eat Pray Love" with Julia Roberts .  Half exist . We all walk under the same sky . When he was somewhere close you are sure to feel it . And if you run around and look, you can rasstratit unnecessary to you people all the time and . A human life is not so long .  What to do? Just live and do good, to help others in the same way you lonely . The only possible way in stae author also writes about it . Good always attracts good . "Most of the soul is never lonely .  As fate would have neither takes away from her friends, she eventually always create them yourself . "Rolland F .  Well, I share your thoughts and do not feel so lonely . )))
I left the girl, because she was looking for the ideal. Even though I told her it was pointless - each has its pros and cons. And I love her. I'm almost 30, I have been searching for his half, he found it in her. As it is now back - I Do not know. Girl, why you always need more than you have? Why so mock the feelings of those whom you throw ?
After the divorce, I was about 3 months to enjoy the freedom, then start again actively seek muzha.Kak idiot ran out on dates, acquaintances, each considered as a potential muzha.No then I realized, just as we do not like it when a man carpet is spread before your feet, and we do not like, just im.Oni and run from such a woman, who encroach on their svobodu.Vo Second, I realized that if I will work hard to try to get married, then jumped out of the fact not , who would have hotelos.To at his desire I did not consider himself cheloveka.Ya took him, I began to get involved in that, I wonder gradually realize their desire in life.I now I feel a complete person and want him next to me, too, was a full-fledged personality male osobi.Ya no longer looking for a husband, a man, a partner, I just live and enjoy, and firmly believe that I will be happy and finding a family, and what you all want).
Hi! Article by side but good! I quote:
Option 2: "bird in the hand is better than pie in the sky" - have nothing to dream of a "Prince" is still such does not happen, it is necessary to agree at least on something.
Something that's not clear to me, then it is better to be alone than with anyone popodya! I have written enough girlfriend to fly in the clouds, you, too, not Jennifer Lopez is not! And it is worth paying close to your surroundings! In general, I am enraged people who think that they are beautiful there with this I will not be this stupid! Although do not krassavitsy not clever!
I'm alone, I'm 25 years old and it seems that already it will. I tried to look, sitting on dating sites even start a relationship with a decent man of principle "can endure-slyubitsya" ... But do not tolerate slyubitsya)) For the full experience of meetings and relationships I realized one thing - to change himself completely and break bezperspektivnoe occupation It will not work and that's it. It's sad but true - in one way or another, many are doomed to be alone. You can try to change something, you can break yourself for marriage, for example, or jump on everyone he met, that would not be alone .. but that is not love, but some substitute for love ..
Not rasstaivaysya! Maybe you just have not met togo.Lichno I'm the only regret is that the guy did not say that very love it! He razbilsya.Poetomu if you really love ... say ....
Milena! Totally agree with you! I crashed three years ago, a guy and I do not tell him how much I love! The first time I saw it I said to myself: it is mine. During these three years, my longest relationship was 3 nedeli.Ne can find one that was expensive - perhaps still waiting for him this present.
I agree with the hammer, the ideal is not perfect, but where do you see the ideal as well? All problema that people are very willing to demand from others and are very reluctant to require sebya.Kak also do not like me, and can not love for people internally chto.Esli handsome, good-natured, open to others, unspoiled his consciousness of contemporary fashion and its mass culture It is sure to notice and be attracted same pozitiv.Nado remember the good in essence EQUAL bad malignancy lurks in any kind! And always the ideal becomes only the native people although it will always be a lot of disadvantages apriori.Odinochestvo- because people today are empty and they can not in the future to create anything worthwhile, read books Lazarev will vam.Uluchshayte yourself and think positively, according to your faith ( read on mylyam and consciousness), and given to you will be!
I, too, have never liked really do not know when it will happen ... is periodically longing and want to cry ((But it helps the music is turned on, listen to what your heart desires, and feelings with the music are. But I want to say that really need to believe in something that will still be! And the main thing - not to lose heart, to act and to seek your soul mate (as written in the article), and to live as tells the heart! It is certainly difficult, but because time ago will not return ...
After rasstovaniya with a guy like all the previous, I really did not like, I even felt relief and joy that now svobodna..No after reading the book and watching a movie about love, I started kind of melancholy, how do you want It is the same happy and someone needs as heroin. But as well as her boyfriend was perfect, but now it is impossible to meet the perfect guy. I have a lot of fans, but they are not my heat is not cold, they usually .. What do you do? Nati Where though, would this little perfect guy?
I married a very good man. Many girls want to be his wife.
 
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