The basis of love - the emotional connection, attraction, but neither desire not stand the test of time, if there is no compatibility between the lovers. Physical attraction - is just the beginning, outset of the novel, but love is not limited to sex. A woman can attract a man How to Attract Men - Tips for Women Using psychological manipulation, making him jealous, or enticing, and then pushing, but is it real love, sincere feeling?

Therefore, a woman should ask yourself is not "How do I get him to fall in love? "And" How better to learn? "And" How to help him get to know me better? ". When men and women get to know each other, between them may love (or maybe not), but their relationship will be honest and sincere, without manipulation. Love is not possible if there is the compatibility of the original.

A woman can not make a man fall in love, but it can make him wish that in the future may turn into a trusting and really close relationship. So how do you attract the attention you liked the man and push him into action?

1. Establish eye contact

Look able to express any feelings. You can bring a man alone eloquent look. Great La Rochefoucauld said: "Hide the love when it is as impossible as the show when it's not." Your feeling will not go unnoticed. Eye contact - this is the first step toward intimacy, a declaration of intentions and interest. Most men do not dare to approach a woman, if you are not sure of its disposition to dialogue, fear of rejection. So do not be afraid that you will misunderstand, feel free to let me know and the man that you like.

2. Ask a mutual friend to introduce you

Sometimes a woman is forced to be the initiator of the contact, as a man too shy or just not aware of her interest. In this case, you can ask a mutual friend to introduce you to the object of interest, like when a chance encounter; then everything will depend on you - you can start either noncommittal conversation and test the waters. If you can be interested in a man, the initiative goes further to him, and he will use this opportunity to appoint the next meeting.

3. Invite him out on a date

If you believe that a man like you, but I understand that he is too shy to invite you on a date, take the first step. But it can be done only if you know that a man is not indifferent to you, and simply does not dare to act for fear of failure. Confident man immediately invite your favorite girl for a date, especially if you notice her interest.

4. Do not be intrusive

Even if a man you really, really like and you are almost sure that it - your destiny, do not say directly to him about it at the meeting. As already mentioned, for a woman there is nothing wrong to initiate contact and show interest and sympathy, but do not be too intrusive - it only alienate man. A man must feel conqueror and control the relationship (or at least he should be kept such an illusion).

5. Try to get to know the nature of man

If you really like a man, it is quite natural that you want to know about it as much as possible, to study its habits and preferences. Men are very emotional, but often hide emotions under an impenetrable armor machismo. The task of women - to make a dent in the armor, but the pressure and the power of trust and sincere attention. Men tend to be more willing to share their problems and experiences with a girl, not with your friends, to whom you need to keep face. If you can be this girl, you definitely have a chance at a relationship.

6. Be yourself

As you know, love can not be, and no woman can arouse feelings of a man against his will. You can wake the lust and desire, you can get married, but eventually it will not bring satisfaction. In any relationship, you need to keep sincerity and honesty - at least to know what it is like to you, not you create an image (see, you will not maintain it for life). Do not try to be his that very ideal woman, adjusting to his tastes. Do not be afraid to be yourself - as a rule, men just like dissimilarity of interests, and they do not expect a girl hobbies boxing and football. In the end, the relationship of interests leads to a friendship, not love.

7. Be confident

We wish you love - it is a natural desire, and seek reciprocity is also quite natural. But we should not forget that love is necessary in the first place itself. If you are not inconvenienced by loneliness Loneliness - this is not new, or why am I still alone?   and a private company, it means that you will be hunting for a man that he was greatly encouraged. Men respect women's self-sufficient, able to appreciate the confidence and independence. Respect - a step toward love.

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