Orgasm - interesting phenomenon, the emergence and existence of which a person in the form in which it exists, remains the subject of study and debate. Orgasm - is the peak of sexual arousal, after which comes a different intensity and depth of discharge. Some women at the same time to lose consciousness. Even a completely uneducated man intuitively knows how to achieve orgasm. And the mystery of his existence and the need for that at this scale and importance of this orgasm is only a man, separate from the actual enjoyable "makeweight", an accompanying feature of conception Conception - as the emerging life   new life.

Without orgasm

The question of how to achieve orgasm much more important for women than for men. The explanation is quite simple - the representatives of "the stronger sex" orgasm is directly related to ejaculation, the release of seminal fluid. Women do not have such a connection, as it is, so to speak, the host, the acceptor.

Frigidity (sexual coldness or inability to obtain orgasm during sexual intercourse), and anorgasmia (difficulty achieving orgasm) have quite a different nature. According to the majority of sexologists, and the first and the second is a violation and deviation from the norm; some researchers tend - at least in the absence of clinical abnormalities that lead to sexual bezorgazmennoy - considered these sad events for their owners only features of the constitution.

A ticket to orgasm

In the case of healthy people with normal recommendation on how to reach orgasm can be very simple and consist of only one nealgoritmizuemogo evidence - you must love your partner! Love presupposes trust. It is said in the exact sciences, necessary and sufficient condition. Besides correct actions of the partner, of course.

If you go to practical recommendations, tips, suggestions (or even conditions, providing an orgasm), are as follows:

• the mood long enough psychological preparation for copulation. Obvious relevance of this point is for the women, as a man, in this sense, as a rule, like a pioneer and "Always ready! ";
• no matter how corny it sounds, but other than the actual two have sex people need environment. Romantic fantasy about a huge four-poster bed under a burning candles in the castle on the banks of the Loire filmmakers leave. But it is clear that a basement with a sagging old sofa in the sense of creating the appropriate mood gives clean and tidy bed. Ideally, if the bed is in the locked apartment, which in the next half an hour to break not one;
• proper technique act and its duration. As we know, there are women clitoral and vaginal orgasm, while distinct from typecasting orgasm may not occur in the absence of sufficient stimulation of erogenous zones, responsible for the discharge. Therefore it is considered prudent to - at first sex, at least - one of the partners have sufficient experience and was able to gently and delicately put in the course of affairs your favorite (favorite);
• desire and confidence. Again, we understand that the item in the first place - if not entirely - is related to the weaker sex.

Experience and practice

It is no secret that the first sexual contact, even with a simple and painless defloration not all women experience orgasm. The reasons are plenty: from lack of temperament and comprehensible tightness and stress to individual psycho-physiological characteristics.

Skilled well aware that the question of "how to achieve orgasm" missing girls and women practicing masturbation. This is easily explained, since the rich experience in this partner knows that it needs to achieve detente. Either provoke a partner to the appropriate affection and stimulation or during intercourse provide them herself - even rhythmic voltage corresponding muscles that - she remembers from his own experience - are involved in orgasm.

In a clinical (not to say pathological) to the point of orgasm without need to connect specialized professionals - sexologists and psychologists. In many cases, they are capable of finding out the reasons for the lack of orgasm in women, to carry out appropriate rehabilitation treatment with very positive effect.

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