Orgasm - the desired goal for any woman. And women mostly have to fight for it, though normally educated partner with the right priorities must first achieve orgasm the girl, and then think of your pleasure. And so the question - how to bring the girl to orgasm? - Far from rhetorical.
Unlike men, for whom orgasm more technical procedure, the process of detente in women for the most part is not so much a physiological as psychological. Or, at least, much more depends on the mood, self-awareness, and so on. Including - from training. And so, in fact, in the relations between the sexes, there are concepts such as love game or foreplay.
Let's play?
Even in the animal world coitus directed solely to perform the function of reproduction, the higher animals does not happen just like that, as a result of a rather complex ritual games. But, according to the prevalent view, animals are deprived of soul and imagination, and, hence, full of experiences (including sexual).
What can we say about the people of animate beings, but still burdened with prejudices, complexes and doubts? The procedure for dating, courtship, getting to know each other, gradually increasing convergence, upcoming love - it should take place gradually, if we talk about love. It was only after all this possible physical proximity. When love at first sight
Love at first sight - there or not?
, The absence of moral obligations to third parties, adequate temperament and emancipation partners all this foreplay might take a few hours. In such situations, an orgasm coming will not keep, because the girl ready for it.
Usually, the pre-game (if it is directly on the physical contact) must last as long as - it will be easy to understand - the partner will not reach the desired degree of excitement.
How to become unchained
Puritan upbringing, in which sex was perceived as something shameful and dirty, is now almost does not occur. However, as is always the case, the pendulum has swung too far the other way. And the phrase "let's have sex" and close does not imply spiritual components. As a joke - sex is not a reason for dating. But even sverhtehnichnaya Kama Sutra in the introductory chapters clearly separates itself physiology and attracted souls, which is the highest manifestation of love. Including - flesh.
Break away from its spiritual foundation, the love turns into a bodily physical exercise. For men, the very nature intended for hunting, it is permissible in the sense that it can not affect the senses. For girls and women are much more difficult for her trust - first and foremost. Hence a simple conclusion - his girlfriend is necessary not only desire, but love - and she will feel it. And after that, and the way to orgasm cleared.
What's wrong?
Speaking on the topic of female orgasm very briefly, all the way, is quite simple - enough to be desirable. For the most part this alone allows a woman to relax and surrender to the will of the senses, and the nature of his will. The reasoning is correct, but why then sexologists result disappointing and sometimes depressing statistics regarding female orgasm (or rather, lack thereof)?
The dense ignorance of the male population in all that relates to women's physiology. Thanks to the information field - even on the clitoris and the G point, many are now aware. But on the psychophysiology of all we heard one. But at least you need to be aware that the female body requires much more time to pick up close to the desired goal, so the "rate" of a large number of men - the first bronezaslonka before the female orgasm.
And the circle is closed: a real man in the first place will bring his beloved bliss, then attend to their own feelings. A true master will explode at the same time the favorite, thus repeatedly increasing its happiness and giving a fairy tale for a few long moments.
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