Lover: the reasons why women change

A man convicted of few people that he has a relationship on the side, but if it turns out that a married woman has a lover - a society treats her with contempt. Sexologists believe that the spouse whose prosperous family life, does not change, but the statistics contradict the opinion of experts. The number of women having a secret affair on the side increases. Causes of female infidelity Treason: Fall or loyalty to yourself?   different from dissatisfaction in the sexual life with her husband to the revival of the moral standards of the Middle Ages, when the lady was prestigious to have a few favorites.

Equal rights now have not achieved. The reason for the negative attitude to walking wife hiding in the male psychology. Strong floor - a bold, brave conqueror and confident in its perfection. If it changes, it considers it his little weakness, which should forgive each loving wife. Therefore, first of all, the wife's lover - a severe blow to the ego of men.

Causes lover

Sexual life in the family . Typically, when in bed with her husband there is no harmony, the only women who suffer it, live by the principle "sex - not the main thing." But others need to meet, and just can not get a quality sex with a spouse, you can try to find someone on the side.

Casanova in female disguise . Heroes-lovers from ancient times - men. Women are always associated with homemakers and family comfort. In the Middle Ages, female infidelity was common, his wife had several lovers. The law of love at the time read - the more sexual relationships, the better woman. At present, such behavior is condemned, but the experience of ancestors laid down some ladies can not afford to change. Even happily married women are the secret favorites and do not consider their behavior immoral. Such is the psychology of Casanova: infidelity as the meaning of life.

Summer fling . The most common variant of treason, which sometimes turns into a serious relationship. Between happened to meet a man and a woman breaks out such passion, that when you return home, they continue close communication.

Revenge . When a woman finds out about her husband's infidelities, in addition to the pain and resentment arises revenge. The woman believes that the best way to repay his wife for treason - to find itself on the side of the connection. But such an act is capable of not every.

Many ladies give birth to her lover, pursuing the same goal - to have fun. They think that at any time can stop a secret relationship. But the more time passes, the more difficult to get out of this trap. Psychologists say that men always easier to leave because women are more sensitive and will become attached to a partner, even if initially their plan is not included.

If the lover has many positive qualities than her husband, then it is anyway, leads the imminent divorce. It happens that my wife away from the wife, aware that it is unlikely she will ever marry her secret partner.

Statistic

• The most common age at which a woman starts an affair on the side - thirty-five years.
• The more established husband, the less it is true. Such a conclusion was made by psychologists, studying the huge amount of family change.
• 82% of women admitted that their lover for a long time they had to a friend. This is one of the proofs of widespread male allegations that the friendship between man and woman Friendship between man and woman: the eternal debate   - It is sex, deferred for later.
• In the UK, 40% of women change their husbands, and the stronger sex married mistresses gets only 20% of cases.
• Scientists have identified three dangerous period when the risk of cheating is the highest: the third and the seventh year of marriage, and lived together after twenty years.
• The proportion of men to change their wives, for several years, remains unchanged, and the percentage of invalid women is growing every year.
• 40% of women cheated on her husband once, 25% went to the left from two to ten times, and 15% do so regularly.

Xenia Aslanova

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