The betrayal of a loved one brings great pain, kills the faith, just so cold blade cuts the thread connecting us. ... Why change? Why inflict such pain dear man? Living with one, sleeping with others and at the same time say that both ways. Or before marriage - to meet with a girl, is not it chayat soul, speak the same language, breathing one breath, and change it? This men's polygamous or each concrete case? And why do men cheat?

"Treason is a cold blade struck through his veins."

Treason

Definitely it is very difficult to define treason. Some are comfortable with the fact that men can be physical intimacy on the side. Others fall into a frenzy by a single mention of his childhood girlfriend, with whom he fought a kid portfolios.

Some accept as fact samosaborazumeyuschiysya treason - alter almost everything and everyone; It serves only a tiny percentage of men and those for physiological reasons.

Others understand the betrayal by the presence of a permanent mistress, the little affair on the side - not a cause for concern. It is necessary for the discharge. And do not hold in this regard tantrums.

Single or multiple physical contact on the side - in any case, a betrayal, but! Only if a man allowed her to learn about this woman. That is, we do not know about the change, it is not. Can betrayal as a drop in the sea - it is not caught, did not notice, I did not feel - it does not drop and the sea. In a literal sense the way it is, but really? What motivates us when to change?

Whatever the cheating, as if it did not understand the main thing to understand what the cause, understand the situation, a sober look at things and draw conclusions.

Causes :

1. Internal promiscuity.

The man thus born - wrong, Don Juan. He did not know how to feel and experience, he can only choose. Such men go to the left, five times a week.

They marry, have children, go with them to the zoo on Sundays and on Saturdays the restaurant with his wife. He even calls in between the arms of his mistress, to know "how are you there? ". The wives of these men are aware of the tendency of her husband and raising children, and humbly wait for her husband to work. Or vice versa as it changed.

2. When the feelings go and there is no former love.

For many relationships are different arguments. You swear because of trifles, and you offended because the same piece of cake. What is missing in the relationship. Starting this search something on the side. He meets another girl, not burdened with all load-term relationship Serious relations: how to understand what it is they Without having any claims to it. As a result, he either understands that this is something that would chip, that is - "Lovely curse - just amuse." Then everything falls into place and all is well. Or, alas, he leaves.

3. The result of the internal search.

Kind of a midlife crisis when they begin to chase the myth, trying to catch something. This is not necessarily 30 years. Every man comes to the search for a different time. Of course, as in any rules there are exceptions. And someone does not come to this ever, and someone does not go never. On the last we talked to in paragraph 1. This period is necessary just to survive. Despite all its complexity.

4. sexual diversity.

Betrayal implies only sex. Such infidelity is almost unavoidable. Naturally, over time, all bored and looking for a man on the side of some variety.

5. Emotional doping.

Married life - it's Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday .... You wake up, eat breakfast, you go to work, come home, eat dinner, have sex .... Bored? On the other hand, you realize that this is the real life of the rear, which is convenient for everyone. It is impossible to live all your life in the emotional lift. At the same time you know that will never be in awe of the soul, the excitement of touch and call waiting - no call. But both want to feel whether there is still life in the old dog yet. Do not forgot how to even fall in love. The feeling of love gives a kind of lightness, lifting the mood - a momentary happiness. While the man in demand and is sexually desirable, and it is in a hurry to hear as much as possible, "love." Are you a husband that really never experience, just as you do with him.

6. uncomfortable house.

That is to say his wife, who always nags, which is not so. We need to make repairs, you need to take out the garbage and stuff like that. And he would like to feel at home in the office for relaxation: soft music, soft light and desirable woman ... and a decent dinner, of course! Men do not feel loved, run home in the hope of finding there is understanding, love and support, and there - a nagging, jokes, complaints about neighbor and chief uncomfortable ... it appears certain emotional alienation. He begins to look on the side of understanding that is primarily spiritual contact. When will most likely go away.

7. The ideal wife.

The opposite behavior leads to the same results. The ideal wife bored. The right to such an extent that is contrary. This happens with those who are used to doing everything on the "five", not leaving behind any error of law or a single speck of dust on the carpet in the bedroom. He becomes just boring. Men should always be kept in readiness. Adrenaline need them to like on a roller coaster.

Whatever your story has not ended with treason Treason: Fall or loyalty to yourself? The most important thing - is that it is impossible in such cases simply to say "he is rassyakoy, and all men are" (the unprintable). Because of this situation, you must first learn the lesson for themselves. Make a conclusion. Do not forget anything in our life happens for a reason. And if in these respects you could not fix the error, then you definitely will have a chance to do so in the future.

Keep yourself always in good shape. Watch yourself - more beautiful and sexy lingerie no underpants à la Bridget Jones. Try not to go to sleep in curlers - you could be screwed on the morning of heated rollers, or do blow-dry. Do not forget about hair removal, makeup, hair.

Jealousy is not bad medicine for the prevention of male infidelity. But not revenge, namely flirtation Flirting - this is serious . Let him feel that you desire, attractive and sexy. And he had no time to think about other women.

Lyudmila Beshirova specifically for the Women's Club

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