Men and women often have different interpretations of infidelity. Treason in understanding each may have very different parameters. Often the clash of views on this sensitive issue leads to sad consequences.

What is treason

To determine whether a man has broken the boundaries of what is permitted to another girl, he had to submit his own girl does the same thing, and decide whether he considered it a betrayal. For example, how he would feel if his girlfriend will share with another guy that she likes or does not like sex? Or arrange them c candid dancing in a club? Will this change?

• According to studies, 74% of men said that adultery begins with a kiss. In other words, physical contact - this is treason. According to the women, however, it begins much earlier. 36% of women said that the relationship with another woman on an emotional level is worse than physical connection. They were more upset by the fact that the man freely shared with another woman the things that he has to share with them - hurts more than a casual night with a stranger.
• 41% of women consider "dirty dancing" with another woman as a betrayal. They believe that such dancing - it's like virtual sex, so, if a man does it with another woman, he wants sex with her, which is unacceptable.
• 35% of women consider sexual flirting cheating Flirting - this is serious . It does not refer to a harmless flirtation, but if a man is discussing with a woman that he would do it alone, with the intention to make it happen - this is treason.
• 79% of women believe that if a man goes to a strip club and pays for it to touch the stripper, then there are problems in the relationship. He, no doubt, change your woman.
• 80% of women consider cheating Treason: Fall or loyalty to yourself?   virtual sex. Discussing sex with another woman on the Internet, and even worse, masturbating at the same time, a man changes his woman.
• And, of course, 100% of women consider any sexual contact as a betrayal. Kissing, fondling, oral sex with another woman - this is nothing but a betrayal.

Myths about infidelity

Experts who examined decades of men, women, marriage and relationships, come to the conclusion that one of the biggest challenges remain faithful in a relationship - when one partner is looking outside of marriage physical or emotional connection. When people know about the change, they often think about what it causes. And most of the findings are incorrect. Here are the ten most common misconceptions about infidelity, to be aware of:

• Many believe that only men tend to look for relationships outside of marriage. It is not true. Women also change. Treason can happen to anyone.
• If cheating was discovered, the couple will never be able to be happy. Treason happen and people to deal with it. We hear a little story with a good ending because nobody tells. Couples can learn to successfully recover their relationship, and many say that their relationship became even stronger after they coped with it. Understand the difference between facts and myths about infidelity, with a partner, you will better understand how the betrayal of what to expect when it happened, and what can be done to prevent a betrayal. Truth - a powerful tool that will help you recover.
• Most of those changes, unhappy marriage. During interviews people who have had intercourse outside of marriage, the question they would like to get away from the family, most responded that they would prefer to stay. 56% of men and 34% of women have continued to take your marriage is good.
• Treason never happens for the sake of sex, it is associated with other problems in the marriage. Sometimes a cigarette - it's just a cigarette, and sometimes sex outside of marriage - it's just sex. Of course, some of betrayal associated with unmet emotional needs, but for some people (not most) betrayal - it's just a sexual adventure.
• If there was no sex - is not treason. Many infidelity occurs without any sex. Is it not true, when someone midnight corresponds with former classmate / classmate of his intimate thoughts? Those who do may not consider it a betrayal, but his partner is likely thinks this is wrong. When you give a part of yourself emotionally to someone with whom you can potentially change the day, this is treason.
• All of betrayal associated with sex appeal. Of course, some of betrayal - it's just sex, but infidelity often happen on the basis of emotional connection. Sometimes, spending time together and share feelings - it's where to start a relationship, although it is true that the feeling of emotional intimacy often leads to sex.
• Treason occur because of problems in the marriage. That is true: in almost every marriage has problems. Cheating does not occur because something is wrong in the marriage; they occur, in particular, because the pair do not know how to solve the problems with which they have. Problems in your marriage fall short of treason.
• Changed once - change yet. This has some truth, but not everyone who changed, is the embodiment of evil. Many treason happen only once. What happens after infidelity, marriage can direct the path of stability or destroy it. When finished with the treachery that was healing, a person should tell the whole truth about infidelity. Knowing the truth - this is the first step to healing.
• After the betrayal can say goodbye with his marriage. Take your time. More than half of marriages survive after infidelity. Although the future relationship and may collapse because of other problems, if the spouses are willing to work together, they will be surprised when they find that trust is restored. The most common reasons for the destruction of marriage, from 53% to 55% - this alienation and inability to talk to each other.
• Change with those much younger and more attractive. Not necessary. Yes, sometimes a man in his sixties may look young lover, but usually mistresses or lovers are not younger, not richer or more attractive couple - it's just something new.
• Treason are due to the fact that men are looking for this object. No, most infidelity happens to those who do not seek it. This is especially true in cases where the partner has changed with only one person. Treason often begin with the fact that people feel with someone very comfortable, for example, those who work at the next table. Then people begin to share their personal secrets that can go into an emotional bond, which ends this date.

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