Gigolo, serving women, generally regarded as something of a urban legend. However, as more and more women are willing to pay for sex in a relationship that no non-binding, the topic that had once been a taboo, has now become more common.

The complex psychology

It seems that we never stop complaining about the opposite sex. Women complain that men think only about sex, while men grumble that women in mind money alone, and so on.

For many years, women complain of double standards in the sexual aspect of life. Their main complaint was not that the majority of men are willing to have sex with almost every woman. No, most women are unhappy that they can not do the same with men and thus not to be considered a woman of easy virtue.

It seems to get rid of double standards, women must either ignore the polygamous men, to teach them a little self-control, either by increasing the number of sexual partners. And it seems that more often they choose the second option.

Today it is considered much more acceptable for women to have multiple partners than it was forty years ago. Society no longer considers sexual freedom something vicious.

On the other hand, men are complaining that there are many women who want to date men just because of money. If this issue remove double standards, why men do not behave the same way?

No, it does not mean that a man must sleep with a woman for money. But he can devote his time to indulge, get a massage, and make love with a woman of their financial dreams. In this case, the man - not a paid escort, but just a gigolo.

Male escort takes Beret - a symbol of French charm   specific hourly rate for their sexual services. Gigolo does not take an hourly fee, it meets or spends a lot of time with a woman just like you would a friend or a lover on a date or in bed. In response, the woman showered him with gifts to show their appreciation. If women have done so for thousands of years, why men do not do the same?

Some women say that they like to pay for what they called "a perfect experience", because in the end of the night they just paid the guy, and he leaves.

What woman considers a form of an ideal relationship? The woman, who definitely does not want anyone to tell her what she should do with your money, or your time, and so on. She knows that she will not call a gigolo. She does not want to call it. She knows that no matter what she said - it's her business, and she does not care whether he likes it or not. In this it sees freedom: just be what it is, and to know that it does not matter.

Who are the gigolo, and what motivates them?

Among gigolo can meet people with a good education, and those who have a permanent girlfriend. Some feel that their occupation is not a prostitute. Everything that happens to them - there voluntarily, so they do not refer to this as the sale of their bodies, and do not consider their occupation immoral.

The logic is that if a man wants to invite a woman on a date, he pays for dinner, and for everything else. When a man invites a woman out on a date, it pays.

Gigolo client does not believe that only pay for sex with them. They do not consider them as sex workers or prostitutes. In dealing with women, you need much more than just physiology. My gigolo and his client is different than that of a man with a prostitute.

Sometimes the women met with a gigolo, just alone. Sometimes they just need to feel that someone cares about them. Some women have just gone through a break with a man, or a divorce, sometimes they make themselves a birthday gift, and some just so much money that they do not know what to do with.

But not every man who wants to become a gigolo, is suitable for this activity. What requirements must comply with the professional gigolo? It should look like a model, to be educated, well-mannered, have a good sense of humor and intelligence.

If a man wants to try himself as a gigolo, he needs to find a woman who has enough money to support him financially. Typically, such women lack something in life - joy, companies, high-quality sex or just a good lover Lover: the real situation To be attentive to their desires.

This may be a rich man's daughter, who wants to annoy their parents, to attract attention. Sometimes it is unsatisfied housewife who wants to take revenge on her husband for treason Treason: Fall or loyalty to yourself? He is spending his money on a young lover. This is often a lot of running successful women who never have time to get acquainted with the man, because they have given a lifetime of his career, and now want to live life to the fullest.

Where can I meet with these women? The man did not have to wait for them to come to his house - it will cause them a sense of guilt. If a man wants to meet a woman, he must actively look for her.

Parties and events in high society - it is usually the best place to socialize and meet yearning lady. At such events can be accessed by invitation, or to work on it. It is best to stand behind the bar and mix drinks. This will allow the young man to flirt and talk with lonely ladies. Those who do not know how to mix drinks, you can try to get another job, which will go to an event of this kind.

Of course, keep in mind that the life of a gigolo is not always so beautiful and pleasant as it sounds. Of course, the presents - it's great, and sex can be amazing, but sometimes looks women can leave much to be desired. Here a man must decide how far he is willing to go. Often have to weigh the pros and cons, to decide, is it worth it.

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