It is difficult only at the beginning. It's hard not to look away, do not blush, do not hesitate or blush. The child in the forehead asked about sex, of the slippery topic for many parents. Why is this issue so actively hushed up in the family? Parent complexes and flaws sex education is only now rising out.

No need to put a child in a certain day and hour in front and read boring lecture on sex education. The time will come and he will ask your child this difficult question. First - "where it came from? "And then sprinkling the more detailed questions about the structure of the male and female sex organs, the mutual merger and the possible consequences.

My baby overheard her on TV unfamiliar word "abortion." What it is? I had to explain everything from the beginning. They listened attentively, nodding his head curly clever. And then suddenly burst into tears and made a profound conclusion: "I will never kill people! "Mudra our children.

Mudra is the fact that they know exactly when and what you can ask. Rare child asks a question about sex in the presence of her grandmother. The kids themselves are very nervous, asking the topics of conversation. Specially selected the time and place. Only occasionally may ask the forehead, a large gathering of people. The goal - to stun and enjoy painting adult stupor. This step is often unconscious and spontaneous. It is how to break the boil. It is important to bring to this state of their child. The best prevention.

An important detail - it's hard to start a conversation only the first time. As soon as the kid sees that mom and dad friendly and clearly, calmly and in detail tell him about sex, he will understand that it is the same as the natural human need for drinking and eating. Confidential conversation in a popular form and peaceful environment can make parents and kids real friends.

Where do the parents themselves to take this knowledge about it? In schools and universities of the subject there. Sami learned from friends, from books and films, often in distorted form. Book it now, really a lot. Well, scientific films, too. Give full access to information - part of parenting. And it should be done at the beginning of the growth of the baby. Metered, well-supplied information. But much more important to instill the idea of ​​naturalness and desire of all the changes of age.

His kid is better to tell about the age of 10 years, when hormonal storm has not yet captured the brain and it can adequately perceive the physiological information. Trained from childhood people further their sexual relationships build competently, without distortions and ordeals without broken destinies and tragedies of life.

Listen as we affectionately call the genitals of our kids - "pisya", "pisyun." The kid grows up, it is time to understand the serious, adult names of male and female sexual organs. The boy needs to know that his genitals are called the "penis" and added the scrotum and testicles. The girl, too, should know that it "pisya" called "vagina." It is better to show how to construct the figures and the genitals of men and women differ. This will greatly facilitate the further science.

When the baby saw the mating dog on the street, he had a long and carefully examined them, and then asked a direct question: "Why are these dogs so grappled? "Mom blushed and pulled the kid across the street. Where it was easier to calm and explain in detail what they now have two cells merge and will soon appear in the stomach of the dog puppies. I'm sure the baby will be followed by the next question - as it does in humans. And here we need patience and calm to your child in plain language to talk about that with my mom and dad, too, are connected to the child appeared. Only the people, it happens in a different way. People love each other.

Jeanne Pyatirikova

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