Every girl dreams almost from the cradle that she will meet her prince and live happily with him all his life. But the reality is often so that you meet her prince falls in love with him, and then it turns out that he is married. But you love him so much already, that the decisive relations with a married man no matter what.
So, unconsciously, you agree to be the "other woman." Have you dreamed about it? After all, you will always be for him in second place. Think, is it worth spending your time on a man who deceived his wife and children. Where is the guarantee that you he did not do the same. Unfortunately, a big mistake women is that they think they are better than wives of men who change them. In fact, everything is not as it seems. In a relationship with a married man has no future.
The relationship with a married man - it is the worst relationship, which can be an unmarried girl or woman. When you decide on such a relationship, it will inevitably find yourself in a world that can bring you a lot of joy, but at the same time to destroy your happiness in a moment. And this cycle of periods of happiness and periods of pain is repeated as long as you do not dare to break relations with a married man. But why is it that women fall for this trap?
How to start a relationship with a married man
Almost all relationships with married men begin the same way - with embarrassment, confusion and desire. It is known that women are by nature just helpless in such circumstances.
Most often a relationship with a married man tied to work. First, we had lunch together during the break and then go together to the cafe to drink coffee, discuss some common threads. But at one point, a man says to you, that if he was not married, I could fall in love with you, or rather, he was already in love with you. Of course, when a woman says such nice things, it just melts in pleasure and suddenly begins to realize that she too has feelings for this man. It is no longer confused by the fact that he has a wife and possibly children. But what end these stories? As a rule, the woman's head goes into an affair with a married man, believing that she is able to make him truly happy. She no longer thinks about his wife and family. She just wants to be with this man.
The worst thing in this situation is that no woman wants to be in the role of a mistress, ie to have a relationship with a married man. But for some reason it happens to many of the fairer sex.
Over time, the woman begins to realize that it is not "one and only" just another one of those that occur with married men. Now she begins to realize that it is destroying someone else's family. But it is not important, the main thing that he loves her and wants more than his own wife. In it believes most women who have relationships with married men.
As for men, they do not get tired of repeating that love their "give heart" more than their wives, they just is not easy to decide on the divorce and so on.
The sad truth of reality
Most of the women who have relationships with married men, do not realize that they were simply used. If you're dating a married man, you must understand that you will never be family weekend, joint holidays, trips with friends and others. All that he is and will be only with his lawful wife, no matter how unloved it was not for him. And you will always be a secret side of his life. It's a shame, especially when he tells you that you have so much to him. But you have to put up with this situation.
Before you start a relationship with a married man, you must understand that it is painful and humiliating. Sometimes it takes years to ensure that the woman was able to understand the senselessness of such relationships and to allow themselves to love this man, who is ready to marry her and do everything to make her happy.
If you do decide on a relationship with a married man because of the great love for him, some tips will help you with dignity out of this situation.
- First of all, respect yourself. Remember that most men never leave their wives for mistresses, even if they swear by it in big and pure love. Remember that this kind of attitude brings a lot of grief and condemnation from the outside.
- Secondly, do not forget that a man is not only his wife but also children. Think how much grief you can bring any innocent children if destroy a strong family.
- Third, why did you decide that a relationship with a married man - this is for all of you? You are beautiful, young and sure to meet a free man who will love and who will love you. Do not you want to have a man who will belong only to you alone?
- Fourth, if you have a relationship with a married man, you would not escape conviction the people around you. But to decide on such a relationship should break only you, and not the people of your surroundings.
If you decide to break relations with a married man, it is very important to interrupt any communication with him. You can even change the phone number that he had no way to contact you again. Try to simply erase it from life to make room for this man to come into your life. Of course, this is a serious psychological trauma, if you break the relationship, but it needs to survive, to give yourself a chance to finally be happy. Remember that someone else may not always be so good and desirable, as it seems.
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