Compliments - a special part of the social life. Right to compliment can create as much positive energy that relationships between people will grow quickly and safely, as if by magic. No matter what field you are dealing with a man: as the appropriate compliments between lovers and between friends and business associates. Therefore, we must be able to make a compliment to everyone.

Why compliments so agreeable? Because they - as gifts for no reason; they do not ask for much less, do not require them to give no reason, but they almost always come in handy.

Terms compliment

• Specifically

A truly memorable and the most pleasant compliments are specific. For example, instead of telling the employee, "You did a good job on a project," mark the concrete achievements of the employee, the task with which he coped; instead of a simple compliment: "Pretty blouse," say - "The color of this blouse is perfect to the color of your eyes."

• Celebrate personality traits

Usually compliments emphasize the appearance or the details of specific actions to achieve human rights. Try to identify the personal characteristics needed to do something that made a man, and his praise such traits as perseverance, kindness, caring, loyalty, humor, peace, creativity and courage. Example compliment Compliments "We need a lot of courage to come up with such a speech," or "I like how you combine clothes and accessories. Apparently, you are a very creative person. "

• Be honest

It is better to say nothing than to make a man labored compliment - it certainly feels insincere. If you do not see in the dignity of human beings, do not try to give him compliments, but remember, each has its own strengths and unique talents. Try to find in any man something good, and when the opportunity to do compliments: it will bring much joy not only these people, but also to you.

• You tell people that they are important to you

You may think that you are close to the people, and without a word they know how much they mean to you, but it never hurts to tell them about it. "For me it is very important that you have been with me during the difficult period of life," "I really appreciate your support" - such compliments are very pleasing to your loved ones, even if they already know how you like them.

• Do not compliment the people with whom you have a conflict

With few exceptions, a person in such a situation can take a compliment poorly veiled mockery.

• Compliments should be appropriate

For example, do not always cost the compliments regarding the appearance of their colleagues - it might just be out of place (it is better to praise the quality of the business), and in some countries face charges of sexual harassment.

How to compliment a woman

Many men do not think about how to make compliments to women - they just say something to the standard, for example: "You have beautiful eyes," and do not bother trying to come up with something a little more refined. But these women hear a lot of compliments, and for it to be special, and you need to tell her something special.

• "I could talk to you until the morning"

Every man who has some experience with women who know that they attach great importance to communication. Hear from the man, that it is pleasant and interesting to talk to, a woman can be more pleasant than to know that he likes her eyes or legs. For such a compliment to properly choose the time - it is best to do it during the lively conversation. For example, she once told her something interesting or listened carefully to you, pause briefly, and then tell me with a hint of admiration and amazement in his voice: "You know, I could talk with you until the morning."

• "I like the way you thought"

My thinking women often become the object of jokes and anecdotes, but compliments the female mind rarely speak, and they sound like notes casually like, "You know, you're pretty clever ..." ("... for a woman" - these words man, of course, I do not say, but she could invent their own). Compliment her style of thinking when she made an ironic remark or subtle observation - she certainly appreciate it.

• "You look amazing"

Most women spend on their appearance a lot of time and effort, so men must necessarily make compliments on appearance, even if they do not notice that the woman has made a new haircut, do not distinguish one tone of lipstick from the other, and the next day after the meeting I can not remember what she was wearing on a date. Despite all this, it is enough to tell a woman that they look awesome, that she realized she did not knowingly chose her clothes, do hair, makeup and manicure. But compliments like "Cute dress! "- Should be avoided. Firstly, it is not original, and secondly, it can ask, for example, what dress better: what is on it now or the one she wore on your first or second or seventh meeting. If you think this dress, she would be offended, and if you remember it - congratulations, you are a most unusual man.

• "You are the most beautiful of their girlfriends'

Women go to nightclubs or bars with a company of friends for moral support and security, but most of them secretly wants to be more attractive than the rest of girlfriends. This is not a reason to once again make jokes about friendship Female friendship: Myth 4   - Just about any team there is a vowel or tacit competition, which does not necessarily lead to conflicts. Whatever it was, the woman will be pleased to hear that she's prettier girlfriends, but when you talk it with her. If you say it in front of her friends, it would cause outrage throughout the company, including the woman who tried to make you a compliment.

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