Relationship - a process that does not stop even for an hour. On the day when you stop and stop work on improving relations, they begin to die - with the love and all the good that was in them. Of course, every relationship is unique, but there are rules of relations, which in most cases will help to live with a loved one in harmony.

Close relations between people start because they are much in common outlook on life, interests, goals, habits. But the more you try to understand each other, the more clearly you see that you're different. These differences in fact - not a reason for conflict, and a chance to improve their lives. Many people at some point in reaching such a feeling of comfort in the relationship that it becomes just too lazy to continue to work on them. But this is a big mistake.

• Kiss and hugs before they go to work, you are going to a party, when you wake up, when to sleep, and, in general, whenever you want. Just a kiss on the cheek or top of the head, a short hug, light touch, warm the heart and remind the thousandth time - you are not alone, you - together. Do this even if you are in a state of cold war. Do not deprive each other of the fleeting, warm touches - often they help to resolve the conflict until it escalated into a serious conflict.
• Cook, when I have time. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Folk wisdom is rarely wrong, and in this case it is absolutely right. Cooked food with their hands, the scent of her in the house help to create a cozy, warm atmosphere. In addition, trips to the restaurant or pizzeria take away time that you could spend together. Cooking a meal together with your partner - is also a good way to strengthen the relationship.
• Try to do the household chores as quickly as possible. This does not mean - make them bad. Just spend them as little time - for example, do not need every day to wipe the dust on the cabinet, fast enough to make wet cleaning. All their belongings are placed to the right places - to clean less, have less litter. So you will have more time you can spend together.
• Do not miss two of us. Boredom - perhaps one of the biggest killers relations. Do not give her a chance, look for joint hobbies. Maybe you both like to ride a bike (or a motorcycle?), Hiking, diving, take pictures, watch birds migrate ... Do it together. Or maybe you really like watching movies? Buy a very good TV and stereo system, to arrange a real movie night, which, incidentally, can continue to discuss creative Fellini ... Cameron or Peter Jackson, for example. You can even invite friends for that moviegoers.
• Constantly try new - expand your range of interests, and you'll never be bored together.
• Listen, speak, act. Always discuss the problem points in your relationship. Quietly Hear your partner, and - too easy - to communicate to him their views. Negotiate everything with which you disagree, and seek compromises. No need to unconditionally accept the fact that you do not like. You can think what you are doing well, but in fact you will have suppressed resentment and dissatisfaction, which sooner or later will have an effect. Therefore, the problem, as they say, need to be addressed as they become available.
• I love his family as their own. For a man, his family and friends are no less important than your family and friends - for you. Do not show disrespect to them (of course, except when they are really bad for you - but in such situations must understand man). I love to his family, and he will treat you like a treasure. And do not pretend to be - people feel this great. Open your heart and learn to truly love those who love your partner.
• Make him their king - as often as possible to show him that he is loved, that you value them and appreciate it. He will appreciate this and will respond in kind, making you - the Queen. The more you put into the relationship, the more you get - it usually works with all but pathological egotists who usually detected even in the very early stages of a relationship. Generously giving him her love, every day provide him with attentions, recalls what it was amazing - after all, it is you are creating a reality in which you live.
• Tempt. Even if you live together for several years and seems to know every detail of the partner - tempt him. Now it is even more important than in the early months, when all of you did for hormones. The seduction and sex, there is nothing dirty shame - and that both are necessary for a harmonious life together. Do not forget to take care of yourself: tell a partner what you want from him in sex; if you think not to try sex toys or even something new - try it! Stop thinking about the shortcomings of his own body - in bed have to worry only about pleasure, there is no place for the complexes. Your partner constantly need proof that men are called solvency - it is extremely important for his self-esteem. Everyone knows what happens when he does not get this house. So remember: to seduce her regular partner or husband - is normal and necessary.
• Everyone should be a private space. People who are in long-term relationships, must remain free. Your partner likes to snowboard, and you are not fond of the snowy slopes? Let him going into the mountains alone, as you can at this time to spend more time with friends, or go on a trip, too - wherever you want. Enjoy the time you spend without it - then you can share with your loved ones the mass of fresh impressions. So it will be easier to maintain interest in each other than if you spend all the time together; be inseparable - youthful dream, which in practice usually quickly loses its appeal.
• Respect each other. Do not humiliate your partner, and do not let him humiliate himself. In general, behave with him as would like it to behave with you. If it expresses new ideas, even the most unusual, listen to them and do not try to immediately prove that they are worthless. Support each other in a variety of endeavors, whether it be a new job or a new hobby. Try as little as possible to say "you do not get." Believe in each other, respect each other - such a feeling of passion live much longer, and really help to keep the love.

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